try Bill Ruhland he is a nice guys, well sort of

Nice guys are boring, and to me being nice is not something that works out, more of this might be some one I can use. This being from my experiance dealing with gals. They say one thing, but mean something else after a little while. It is more of a saying than meaning, "Where are all the nice guys?" Then you state what nice guys are suppose to be, rather than making the assumption this is a universal meaning. You mentioned they want your money or other. Money takers are not nice, but someone that might want to be close to you would not expect you to expose yourself to them so quickly. So it is a start, but you need to define the wants of what a nice guy is? You take it from there, but from where I am nice is not all that you might think it is....here....