That's Agappe and it's difficult if not impossible to have only for one person,an old man once said to me,When you see the rose,you must smell it but don't pick it with that as grow,I've learned that it's not like there aren't women out there but trick is appreciate them but your One and Only,it would be an obvious pretence if a man says he doesn't recognize a beautiful woman because he's in a relationship.You respect your woman not make a mistake of appreciating other woman in her presence.Let's be realistic about this,no man cannot see a woman's beauty unless he's in denial and is trying to act innocently while indications are that he's weak and ignores but give that a chance,you'll see what was seen by Saul in a new Testament!To answer the question lastly,in most cases,Ladies this isn't good but true,After sex is the only time you realise if the vuy is into you or it's just something called fling,some guys would call you day and night before sex and then after that big day the story begins.He will kiss you after you made love if he's into you but he will ignore you if he's like,but what have I done!

True,the sayings of the past have reached their sell by date.Women of nowadays associates themselves with successful men not to build wealth together but they chase ready made.What's good for me is to build your together and that strengthens relationship because you both know where you come from.

It's true that this is a Power Struggle for the two brothers,it started in the middle East instead of the so called Super Powers to solve Middle East crisis they chose to look the other way and today innocent souls have to pay the price!It's more about religion but the question is,how can God b
e put at the forefront of the cold blooded killings?In this century,we're saddened by such acts no matter what circumstances led to all this fiasco and we blame the attacks irrespective of who's right or wrong!Unfortunately,it has gotten out of hand and it's hard for the World to tackle terrorism,with all these groups formed,the devil is beating on us.Our kids before thesee life are killed!If this is more of a religion I then ask myself,in all Islamic States people are killed and they belong to the same religion,Why?Who's behind this whole peace disturbances?There's always a way to engage with the Middle Easterns if the case may be.Just because Politicians aren't directly affected there's so little they can do?If it was their families who are dying then there would be World War.Let's unite for Peace and Safety of our kids in the World!Let there be Peace in World.

It's irrelevant of us to just call women with names like Babe,Pretty,Love etc without even knowing the person but also women does that and it's a turn off for me to be called with such names without knowing me much.If maybe we've been chatting and calling each other for quiet sometime then it's understandable not in a first instance.I just become numbed maybe I'm old fashioned.

Very true,if we're choosy then it's very difficult if not impossible to find that True love but it lies with oneself,what you're expecting in love,the kind of a person you need but still nobody is complete so it's all about you and the compromises you're willing to make so you can feel whole again.

Typically"real"man,as soon as you tell the World you're the real man it shows how fake of a man you're!Let the people see it in you and work hard to be a better man not self proclaim.

Welcome To Mingle world!You'll meet a good friend as long as you're friendly

Match box 20 If youre gone

god gives us what we need in his own time but sometimes its not what we want. good luck dear
Without dictating my opinion but I guess this is exactly on point we don't have to tell people that they need to be the Chosen Ones but it must come naturally.

I think we all have that fear when talk of God,but you as a person what are you looking for?I'm asking this question because here in my country a lady was brutally killed and chopped into pieces by the so called God fearing man in the past week.Think you saw it because its making headlines.You'll never know who's sent or God fearing just set your standards and the right person will come your way.But don't ask them to be who they not because as soon as they read your article they change like chameleons to suit your wishes.

I think we all have that fear when talk of God,but you as a person what are you looking for?I'm asking this question because here in my country a lady was brutally killed and chopped into pieces by the so called God fearing man in the past week.Think you saw it because its making headlines.You'll never know who's sent or God fearing just set your standards and the right person will come your way.But don't ask them to be who they not because as soon as they read your article they change like chameleons to suit your wishes.

But then how to distinguish between those who can and who can't?We have genuine hyenas in a sheep skin here,need to be very careful especially when a person chooses himself as the one,just smell rat from the word go!If a person has good heart s/he knows how to approach every situation.But also this quote doesn't say much about what the author is prepared to do just the wellbeing of her child which will make you more vulnerable to hyenas.Put your offer on the table and that you're a package(kid)not to sound like you only want Welfare of the child whether you love that person or not.

Love needs exactly that,there's no love without attention if one party is annoyed with your attention it clearly means s/he's not into you.If there's no attention then obviously they not interested and it's one sided relationship.I can't call it you're being a spoilt brat because it's what actually happens when loving someone.The interpretations may differ but that's what is required for a successful relationship.What ends relationship?LIES.,DISHONESTY,INSECURITY,INFIDELITY,NOT APPRECIATING,EGO,AND If Jealousy is too much more than Love because Jealousy is between sanity and madness so if not controlled it leads to dysfunctional of love.

Yes it is,without love there's nothing we can do,if we have love we can't hurt others purposely and when we do it's easy to realize our mistakes and apologize.With love everything was created therefore love is of highest value but we tend to shift our focus to intimacy when topics like this comes up and that monopolises the whole idea.You can be hurt or sick if those around you show love,chances of recovery are higher because it gives hope to the hopeless.A soul can't healed physically but in needs of spiritual assistance(comforting,supportive and showing that you care)gives hope and it's positivity can towards life for other person.

Everybody is a down to earth with a great sense of humour and easy to talk to but literally only a few are possessing such quality.Almost everyone don't have kids in actual facts most have kids.

That's genius,now you've got to find the alternative where or what are you attached to.If call ourselves single then that would mean we're very lonely.

I think this has to do with your sexuality,you might be Bisexual or a Straight Lesbian but because of the denials surrounding this homosexuality you find yourself i n a mixed feelings environment.You need to put yourself first not to worry what other people might say if you're Lesbian.What matters is how you personally feel and the decision lies with you not your parents or your siblings because you're the one who has to live with this for all your life.

Just relax,take your time and think a lot because this could have been your minor mistakes or it's her habits if it's not the first time in love with you but if she loved you I guess she should have sat down with you instead of going out wild.It's less likely that the problem is with you it's just that maybe she can't date one for a longtime and she wants the change.You need to check this when entering into a relationship because it matters how you met her.If she's back to her old habits there's nothing you can do about it give yourself time to heal and then when you're ready to move on,do so.But for now,don't rush into moving on because it will only be a disaster since you still have those scars and insecurity will find a home in your heart,happiness will go through the window with the newly found person so I suggest you relax until at least you're ready to love again.It's not gonna be easy to trust but if you allow healing process take place you'll see the difference.

This is a sour truth but African women in Africa and that makes them be more confused,I second the notion quoted above.Finance is needed but not the way our counterparts are doing,you end up realising that it's about security not love at all.

Ngiyakuthanda (IsiZulu)