Short & Sweet NO I CAN'T

This is a question I have always wondered about my self....

Well some women say size matters. But They all fit somewhere.
I personally never compare. If that chemistry is there, you
should be saying EX WHO? It is also not healthy to pine for
your ex or try to compare it is detrimental to your new to not
be over the old. Not wise to compare I say. No to people
are alike.

If I really think back on it can't even remember... Lol
Could be age kicking in...

Like my grandmother always told me Men are like buses just
wait 5 minutes another one will be along.....

She also said" I don't want someone who doesn't want me".
There are plenty of fish sea the sea. Life's too short to
be miserable.

I guess I have been married half of my life. I enjoy being single
free to mingle.

I don't have to share the bed, clean up after a man, answer
to anyone. Date!!

I guess for me being single has been great sucks on Holidays
but other than that I am happy being single. If it happens
great. If not I know how to be by myself, and love myself!!

I can't I have those days....

OMG this conversation has me on the freaking floor

Thanks for this. I needed a good laugh. you guys are better
than a comedy show!

Well said, I applaud your comment.

Hey finish your questions as well are you married divorced kids all thing I want to know.???????

Good luck!

I don't know what they are talking about it's perfect you laid it all out clear no BS. Take you as you are you stated what you want you have goals. Great pictures.


I wouldn't change a single thing!! Be you & GOOD LUCK It's a
jungle out there!!

Your photos are awesome. But tell me later.

We need to know something about you to grab our attention.

Put some effort into it. Tell us what you like or are seeking
in a partner. A little goes a long way GOOD LUCK!!

Delete all but third picture it's the best.. spell check.

Delete that it is a headache looking for Miss right off putting to say the least.

Good luck

You really need your full face great smile though.


If you feel your profile need a little something added.

But mystery is good but a little effort goes along way.

Good luck

You forgot hiking & camping granted there are a few avid hiker's
for fitness. But I doubt there are that many campers in the world!!

I know I'll get flack for it but IT WAS WORTH IT!!

I wish there were more genuine profiles out there so tired of
tell you later. A little effort would be refreshing!!

You nailed it

I have traveled this country for years. Traveling around the pasture
good enough for me. With the exception of occasional road trip to
a good museum or Route 66 Pops to get my NY SELTZER LOL

I just come here for the forums anymore. I signed up to a couple of sites. I just don't think I'll meet anyone that I'm compatible with
in this form. So no I don't search anymore. I am occasionally approached
by another member for conversation. But nothing has become of it.

It does make me wonder, about this form of beginning a relationship.

But if it doesn't happen for me here I am hopeful it will someday.
I know how to be happy with my life,and it's direction.
I am comfortable with myself, values and beliefs. I have standards

Breathing LOL

Well I think age does not matter at 19 I married a 36 year old man who is my best friend to this day.

At 25 I married a man 43, not as close as we once were but marriage lasted 14 years. (18 years my senior)

It is not unheard of that you can find love with someone older or
younger and have a lasting relationship.

I find age is a number. Just because there is a difference in years
does not mean you can't communicate or have chemistry, things in common,
and fall in love. I am a walking living breathing example.

It happens everyday.

I have the same problem!!

I don't want to hurt peoples feelings.I try be too nice.

But I always cave, how is the best way to reject someone
without hurting their feelings or being derogatory.

As for house guests they are like fish they gotta go after three days.
Offer to help carry their bags to car and make a reservation at local
Holiday Inn or Best Western lol.
(Don't laugh had to do that once)

I try to let someone down easy and say we have not much in common
even if they are good looking. I have to feel that connection.
A great conversation. Most guys I have met are looking to hook up
or be FWB which tells me they didn't read that profile. I'm old
fashioned. Maybe I need to change it to OLD SCHOOL LOL

I just started online dating. For me it's five years after divorce.
I don't get out much to meet people. I don't do the bars or clubs.
I put myself out there in hopes I might meet someone that I find
funny intelligent kind person that I feel a connection with. Until
that happens you guys keep me on the floors laughing.

Maybe make a few friends, offer moral to support to someone in the
same place as me. Slim pickens where I live dead or taken LOL!
I am inspired everyday. Sometimes it's as plain as the nose on your
face. Sometimes it is a wait. I am up for the challenge.

I have a full life with farm work teen. But hopefully I will meet the
person, who I can slow down and smell the roses with......

No your not ugly but put a little more effort into profile seems to be
the consensus here. Good luck!!

Love this response I am dying right now!!

Wait a minute wait a minute MAYBE that's WHY I'm still single LOL
Just kidding!!!

I agree with #1 Chemistry
#2 Compatible
#3 Emotional connection


All factors in starting a relationship.