I am only friends with one of my ex's we have known eachother for 13 yrs. We have dated through those yrs and still remained to stay best friends. Also with a lil bit of benifits if ya know what I mean lol ;-) We have seen eachother through everything. Loosing jobs loosing parents lossing lovers best times of my life drinking and talking even if its just over the phone! I love having him in my life even though there are days when we go to blows with eachother we always make up. He was my first time so that was special too and not a lot of girls can say that they still have their firsts still in their life. Whats has been the secret to keeping our friendship after the relationship last??? Beats the hell out of me! I just know if you can find that magic spark in yours than hold onto it cause its worth it!