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aip9615 Joined Thu 02/09/17 Posts: 1	Mon 02/13/17 06:38 PM Topic: Ideal Relationship Edited by aip9615 on Mon 02/13/17 06:47 PM
Well.. I don't know about you but I can tell you what I would like in an ideal relationship..lol.. I would like to be with a giver.. because I am a giver myself.. and I have recently learned that a giver can't be with a taker.. Because the giver will always give and a taker will always take... I want to be with someone that will give to me because I give to them.. not just when they feel like it ..not just when it's convenient.for them.. not just somebody that wants someone to keep them company.. but somebody that wants my company.. not just when they want it.. someone that's open to talk about all types of things.. Not somebody that just only wants to talk about only their interests.. And makes you feel like that's all you can talk to them about.. Somebody that might rub my feet rather than me always rubbing there's.. .. somebody that's going to kiss me passionately rather than me always having to kiss them passionately... Somebody that wants to connect emotionally , intellectually, physically On a deeper Less superficial level.. Someone's that's going to put true effort into a relationship.. not just effort when they have the time or energy...A partner that ask themselves.. am I doing the best I can do.. or am I just phoning it in.. letting my partner put Max effort in.. and they actually show that they are.. buy all the things they do.. touch me. Want to talk with me.. show interest in my life.. be okay with being quiet.. Sometimes.. and letting me know that's okay... someone that's going to rub my sore feet..lol.. someone that wants to spend time with me!.. not just doing what they want to do running errands.. someone that values me in my opinion.. not somebody.. that only wants to hear what they want to hear.. because a person like that isn't someone I can say... that's a great idea about a shelf..you want me to build..for you and iam happy to do it ...but.. in my experience..your shelf... Needs some tweaking... but you only want the Shelf you want.. regardless if it's right or wrong.... and then make me feel like I can't tell you that... Nope don't want that kind of relationship... I want a relationship where we can sit down and build the best shelf possible together...yup.. thi is exactly what I am looking for XD. i could add to that that i want a guy close to my age (i am 20), and that is a devoted Christian,this is of great importance to me since i really expect a relationship with someone that can eventually be my husband, I believe in sex until marriage, I strongly question all aspects of christianity base on what was teach by jesus and his disiples, i dont 100% follow religion unless i have seen it in the bible or there is concordance with it. I really want to get someone who has the same serious believes and live style I want to teach my kids one day. my ideal lifestyle will be in a self-sufficient way so for me is very important that to find someone who wants to homestead/live off the gridd/permaculture, and I will kind of prefer some sort of the creative type cause its a great way to make the homestead better (also, to earn extra cash, also i am a creative person myself XD), if the person is not only looking for stuff to work but to also eventually be more stylish and comfortable (of course it will have pass a good deal of time before that). but you know what I mean.