I left the place with a different woman, without saying anything,

Girls and Guys - do touch if you think you might like them...gestures as simples as a hand on the shoulder put people at ease.

Girls - don't talk about your crazy exes - chances are if you're out with a nice guy they'll be thinking "great, another one of THOSE girls" - we all know that if a girl dates multiple assholes she end up *****ing to her friends about how "nice" you are...then find another asshole to hook-up with.

Don't talk about your weird past sexual encounters...I had a girl tell me about some skinhead that wouldn't leave her alone a friend's party. She led him to the bedroom making him think she was gonna ****, told him to get naked and tied a pillowcase around his eyes - then she grabbed a dry dildo from her friend's nightstand and shoved it up his ass...and left him bleeding in her friends bathroom.

The next time I saw her she actually asked why I wasn't really physical with her

...on a REAL date?

no nookie. thats tacky.

Dont fart or burp

I had a girl say to me, what would you do if I said I was pregnant. That bothered me, true story.

Here is what I think. If you let me I am goign to talk about sex. It really doesnt mean anything more than that. It doesnt mean that I am a good guy or that I am a bad guy. It just means that I am a guy. Just becasue I might make a off color comment doesnt mean that Im only interested in sex and nothing more with you. For the most part nobody on here lives around me. If Im just lookign for sex I dont hav to drive 200 miles to get it. If I meet you its becasue I want to meet you, regardless of any previous conversation or inuendos.

OMG!! An attractive Marylander on this site!?..Welcome!

I would not want to just TELL you to do that, it is always your decision. However, it usually is best to wait a few weeks just to worm out someone who JUST wants sex with you. Of course some guys will hold out that long even if that is all they want, BUT watch the guys behavior during those weeks. If he calls you (not you calling him) etc. and genuinely seems to like you for YOU, he probably is interested in more than sex. LOL, more on my story (after my ex and I had sex, she was like "NOW, You are'nt just gonna use me as some booty call?! and me being the sarcastic comedian i am said, "Should'nt you have asked me that before we had sex?" LOL, it was funy at the moment.

lol, so i've heard :P Damn Leos... so aggressive :P

I've been dumped for not wanting sex right off the bat...I'm a scorpio, I always want sex - I just have standards that must be met before I act on my wants

I don't know what kind of immoral people you're talking to! lol. I seriously would want nothing more than a relationship, i honestly can wait on sex... some guys are idiots >.>

I guess the way you can tell is if they try to smooth talk you alot. Like seriously, i have a friend and that is all he lives for and he tries to smooth talk girls that he goes out with all the time!

Now, if you want to know he is sincere... look for the small things like opening the car door for you or pulling out your chair for dinner. Just other small things like that, you know? That's what I do and it works alright.. don't get a kiss on the first date, but hey, if i wanted to be a player, i'd be smooth talking people all day

Your instinct is the best way to tell... like how he is acting.

It doesnt look like you've been here very long.

You never know. Funny story (ill make it brief) my-ex was just some girl I was trying to fool around with, we had sex within 3 days of meeting eachother, I ended up in a wonderful relationship with her for 18 months and we had a very mutual and simple break up, we still are best friends (not with benefits you sicko) lol, It is difficult to tell I say....

I try to wait. It is about respect.

....But, I have kissed on the first date with men who have ended up being my longest term relationships. So, I guess there are no absolutes! It depends on the individual.

That's assuming the guy did all the planning/paying. Sometimes I'm the one to do it (I really quite enjoy being the one to treat!) so in your logic then the guy should call.

I agree with the person who said the phone thing is a game...if you say you're not into 'games' then screw who's turn it is to call or how long to wait. If you wanna call, call. If the other person is freaked out with how soon it is or if you're the one to call first, that's their deal.

I always feel obligated to call after a first date... It's part of my 'Gender' role... notice that Sex and Gender are two different things... Sex being the bodyparts you were born with and Gender being your 'actions' like cooking and cleaning are the women's Gender role while watching football and drinking beer are the guys' :) j/k j/k