i dated this guy who i know is the one but has to straighten out his life but he got this girl that he thinks nothing of, she is pregnant with his kid. he only uses her for sex so he can see his baby when she is born. i no he has a heart but this ***** is a multiplied piece of ****. so what i am saying here don't settle for less. settle for that one. don't commit until you know you can't go a day without thinking about this special one. she is out there somewhere. just waiting to find her special saving grace. just date around, don't be so desperate. take all the experience good and bad into the finding the one. i no you can do it, go find her!