dont have much luck finding a good man my old way so i figured i would try the on line thing and see what happens. im 41, just left my husband on 11-1-09 and i have one kid at home and a very spoiled cat. i am looking for a man that likes to open doors, pull out my chair, hold hands while taking a walk, cuddle while watching tv, some one who is not going to have a problem with me smoking cigs., some 1 who will not drink around me and that does not do drugs at all, some 1 who respects me and if we start dating understands my limits do to medical troubles. i am very easy to get along with and i like a good talk. hope we can talk through mingle