Oh i can tell you what is really pain of ldr.. just imagine you know somebody for months finally you can fly for 5000miles to see her, you left your home, work/school, friends, family, hobbies etc. Then you come here everything goes good and then one day she just come and say " its would be better if we were just friends, but please dont go home.. " and everything what you were believed in is suddenly destroyed in that moment. Everybody aroud you who know your story dont understand too just only one person is still smiling untill you r crying for days at her home, at your job (you r working with her) and everywhere. And because you left everything you even cant go back to home. So you have stay in her house watching to her how shes ignoring you and just acting like nothing happened and work with her for some months to make money and go somewhere..