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Sat 11/14/09 02:12 PM


the statistics would suggest that they want to be with abusive guy
and are scared to death of a real man that would love them




Whoa there, buddy.

I can pretty much GUARANTEE you that I KNOW what I want and it is NOT to be with an abusive male. I got suckered into that during my marriage, THERE IS A REASON WHY I AM A DIVORCEE.

So, do not think that "statistically" I am inclined to want to be with an abusive male and am scared to death of a "real man".

I know what a "real man" is. Quite a lot women know what a "real man" is.

So please, lumping women into a statistic is like lumping all men into the statistical "douchebag" catergory and saying they all like beer, weights, TV and multiple women in an orgy.


Hasidic says it right. For women that have experienced the worst in the male species, we know what a real man is about, and are looking out to find the right one for us, when we are healed from the damage.

Your comment is as offensive as us saying all men are abusive jerks.

Which i dont believe by the way.



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Sat 11/14/09 01:58 PM
"no haters because i'm married"

anyone that uses the word "big" in their name

smokers


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Sat 11/14/09 01:42 PM


Shoulders, big strong tanned shoulders..hmmmm
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hey now dont go to far....LOL


Well you did ask happy

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Sat 11/14/09 01:33 PM
Shoulders, big strong tanned shoulders..hmmmm

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Sat 11/14/09 01:21 PM
Ewwww sick

Sure its not a science project?

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Sat 11/14/09 10:28 AM
I would be ok with them having a profile. I wouldnt be with them if i thought they would be meeting up with anyone from online.

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Sat 11/14/09 10:16 AM
depends what shes been doing. Will she leave hand prints on her trousers?

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Sat 11/14/09 09:57 AM
flowerforyou Sure...will you look after the kids while i go on the year long honeymoon?


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Sat 11/14/09 09:54 AM


What a nice guy you are. :smile:

My mom really didn't think so after that 'chat'!


Haha I can only imagine. Sure you have been forgiven though.flowerforyou

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Sat 11/14/09 09:50 AM



Yes,

My mom tried that for awhile, I didn't really stand up until she crossed the line, she really liked this girl who was a friend, I had NO romantic interest in her whatsoever...well I left for a weekend and found out my mom moved her into my house while I was gone!

Moral...Stand up, tell them thanks but no thanks I think I candle it. Good luck


Wow, that's insane. What did you do when you got back?

She was a good friend, I helped her find another place to stay. Then had a 'chat' with my mom.


What a nice guy you are. :smile:

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Sat 11/14/09 09:46 AM

Yes,

My mom tried that for awhile, I didn't really stand up until she crossed the line, she really liked this girl who was a friend, I had NO romantic interest in her whatsoever...well I left for a weekend and found out my mom moved her into my house while I was gone!

Moral...Stand up, tell them thanks but no thanks I think I candle it. Good luck


Wow, that's insane. What did you do when you got back?

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Sat 11/14/09 08:37 AM
I'm ready to start over.

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Sat 11/14/09 08:34 AM



:heart: Would you be jealous if your significant other spent more time with their best friend than with you?:heart:

If it was a friend of the opposite sex, then yes....i've heard the "we're just friends" line before...yeah yeah!

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Sat 11/14/09 07:29 AM

some times they have good advice i just dont want to listen to it

I'm sure it comes from a good place and they care about you. However, i hear what you are saying, and you need to make your own mistakes in life and see where the path takes you.

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Fri 11/13/09 08:48 PM
Just can't go to sleep

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Fri 11/13/09 08:45 PM
Did someone install the clapper yet?

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Fri 11/13/09 08:38 PM
Hey Jude

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Fri 11/13/09 08:16 PM


Sure. ITs possible. Forgiveness is wonderful IF remorse is sincere. If my SO thought that the words were enough to express his remorse though,,that would be our end. Actions have to back up the apology with a real attempt to change.


One of the more mature responses...flowerforyou
I'm skeptical of anyone who cannot forgive...


Forgiveness is not the issue, that comes in time and allows you to move on. Being able to have trust and faith in the person again is the real deal.

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Fri 11/13/09 06:55 PM
if hearts didnt break

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Fri 11/13/09 06:26 PM

would you forgive them and accept them back?


I used to think i would until it happened, and then NO, i could not and would not.