I think some men maybe most of us have gone through at least one ,sometimes more relationships and marriages and find it easier to not marry .I think think ultimately men do want to get married but are not in a rush to do I think .what's wrong with finding someone perhaps the love of your life, ,,finally! and taking awhile to get married?
if the two people are happy, and love each other it will be.if you find someone you want to be with the rest of your life treat them that way,and they will not ever want to leave you either.