Well, it makes common sense to me. For years, people have manipulated a person to do things they hate and how has it been working? Obviously its not as more and more people are single. Seems to me; people need to try a new approach and stop the manipulating; stop the controling, and let people have more freedom. My goodness; it seems when one is in a relationship; its like they no longer have a life or a will of their own. That just seems wrong to me on so many levels. Why be in a relationship; just get yourself a dog that you can order around and control. I guess it helps that 1) I am a tomboy, and 2) I worked most of my life with men in the military, so I have a good understanding of where these guys are coming from.

For this reason; I always give the guy a chance to say no when I ask him to do something with me as I may have the same reaction when he wants me to do something with him. He can say no with and not worry about nagging or consequences; its called giving a person freedom.