Hold on to this one thought, "God knows the end of the story before the
first word was ever written." Sometimes in order to find the right
person, you have to be the right person. Instead of concentrating so
much on finding someone to make you happy and to fulfill your life, try
concentrating on making YOU FIRST and to find ways to enjoy your own
company, even if that means you are alone.
And keep writing in the forums so that you don't feel so alone and
empty. I just joined this place myself recently to find friends. If
someone comes along whom I click with that is great...if not, I still
have made some good friends. Make yourself visible, and don't try so
hard.