Could be afraid your going to Chang-hi him into the navy :-))
To me if you set time, keep it.
If your afraid then do not go looking or making promises
Too many are online looking but when you finally going to meet
the fear factor comes into play and the word "should I or how far do I go"
on a first date
Me I say have sex first, then go out to dinner, dancing, for your more relaxed or you kill the date at that point. for you know if you can stand the person or not.

Actually when you first meet you should know,if you are not scard of the truth