Hello joethebricky, you are not on my block list and never were. We have our first contact as of right now. But I warn you, I am not crossing the Atlantic again...I am glad to finally be back home.

I am very concerned now that my account may have been breached and someone is using it to message men in the account. I got on my computer this morning at 10 am and my notifications show that I had corresponded with a man that I could not have as the PC was off. It shows that he messaged me as well, but there is nothing of these messages in my mail box. Yesterday evening I was also accused of scamming someone. I am afraid that there is foul play here. What shall I do?

I am thinking there needs to be a sort of panic button to report the spammers, scammers, and catfish here on this site. I swear I have only been here less than 48 hours and have 6 pages of blocked idiots that think they have a deep enough relationship with me to request I pull my profile down and open a new bank account for them or allow them to use mine. Why can't they be caught with this panic button and denied access here with the same IP address? This is no fun to have to weed them out and sort through all the potential men (in my case) I would like to know more about. It is sad that this is what dating has come to. SHAME on them!!!

It has gotten so bad that I have already started telling out of state guys I would normally be interested in, no. I have to protect myself in that if they are not willing to meet soon, I won't share any info with them. With identity theft and such out there, one can not be too careful. Especially if you are a mother.

***FACE PALMs***
Now there is a silver lining!

I cannot speak for all the women on this site, but even some of the Americans do not grasp the English language. I am an American but have lived abroad and understand the difficulties of learning a new language.

This problem you address is not necessarily about the language, but the sort of people that log in with a false identity and profess their loyalty and love for you within hours of having met. They pose as officers of the military wanting to go on leave to see you, Engineers abroad, Mechanics getting specialty tools from Dubai, and other scams. They always want someones back account info, can't close a deal without your help, or want a new account to be opened to secure a rosy future together with you. Usually, the way one is spoken to here can be a red flag as to whether or not these persons are sincere, honest people in search of a real relationship. Overly dramaticized comments and compliments that never cease are a tell-tale sign, as well as this undying love the feel for you within hours of meeting. Really?!? If they are not willing to meet soon, it is a good chance they are catfishing. At some point one has to draw a line and block them. I will not play inspector and report each and everyone of these characters. I have other goals here.
I have been on this site for less than 48 hours now and 5 pages of blocks already. It is quite depressing. I am looking for my special someone and hoping he finds me before I give up on blocking 90 something percent of my message authors. The good ones come far and few in between.