how good it feels to work out... but the "day after" always blows. I'm sore and in need of a good massage! lol
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When am I gonna find a cuddlebuddy?!
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MARRIAGE
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a complete and utter falsehood!
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Deal Breakers....
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A clingy fella. I mean i'm all for you showin' me some love 'n all... buuuut... there is a fine line between treating me well and creeping me out by being by my side 24/7. I'm a strong independent woman and sometimes I need my space. Literally, breathing room.
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honestly? Just about what I could be doing. Better things I mean. Its almost 1am on a friday night / saturday morning.... and i'm alone doing laundry... I just sometimes wonder why its so hard to be happy... or have someone in your life that makes you happy.
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Someone who can detect a fake amen to that sister! lol |
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"Types" are overrated
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Well, my motto is "if it ain't broke, don't fix it." I love the type of man I'm attracted to, he makes me happy, he excites the hell out of me, he gives me dirty thoughts all day and all night, I love looking at him, his voice is sexy and makes me weak, he's really smart and clever (I'm not into "funny" men, I think they're annoying), I look forward to talking to him all the time and it's never enough, I love obsessing over him. Why in god's name would I ever want to give that up just to say I made a change? No changes, not ever, not for me. But whatever works for everyone else, y'know? |
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outgoing, passionate, spontaneous, vivacious,determined, fun-loving, indecisive, and one who posesses a sense of humor.
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"Types" are overrated
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i compeltely agree with that
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Topic:
"Types" are overrated
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One thing that'll help people on the single road, is to realize that "types" are overrated. Yes, there is always going to be a certain physical or personality characteristic that you will be inevitably drawn to, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't give people without those characteristics a chance. Your heart is going to be drawn to whatever it feels the most connected to, and more often than not, you can't control that. What do you say, why not let your heart decide? I agree on most points. I very much agree that sometimes, it is surprizing to whom you are attracted... I let my heart decice the "heart aspects", my brain decide the "intellectual aspects", my body decide the "physical aspects" and my spirit decide the "spiritual aspects"... What I find, is an initial attraction based on one of the "four aspects"... and then I get to know someone to see if the other three are there in any real way.... I listed to all four parts - however, it seems to take some time to get enough information on the remaining three... make sense? This is just me btw... who knows if I am right or not LOL... $.02 there's nothing wrong with what you said. especially since there is no real "right" or "wrong" answer. But the way you go about it is very strategic and seemgingly successful. |
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"Types" are overrated
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i'm not against being attracted to someone for looks... or for lust.. i'm just sayin... take the leap of faith once in a while. It doesnt work for everyone. Its not suppost to.... but the excitement and follow up after the risk is usually worth while. Whether it is by finding someone new, or because you've begun to learn from the mistake.
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"Types" are overrated
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What do you say, why not let your heart decide?
Your heart doesn't have the brain power of your mind. Ahhh...my heart is just as, if not more powerful than my mind! thats what i'd like to think. hence why I brought it up lol |
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"Types" are overrated
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One thing that'll help people on the single road, is to realize that "types" are overrated. Yes, there is always going to be a certain physical or personality characteristic that you will be inevitably drawn to, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't give people without those characteristics a chance. Your heart is going to be drawn to whatever it feels the most connected to, and more often than not, you can't control that. What do you say, why not let your heart decide?
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Topic:
SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 16
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single. lame.
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Topic:
SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 15
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Its supposed to be worth the wait right? But why does the meantime have to suck so much?!
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Topic:
What would you choose?
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ya know, that's a tough one... but questions like this require multi-factored answers... I don't know what'd I'd do... but I hope I could live with the choice I made regardless of what it was.
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Topic:
SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 15
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Single
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i can't stand people who are fake!
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I have many friends.... but I still feel so lonely because I'm single. FML.
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I secretly wish I had a friend that whenever the need came upon either of us, we could just hook up with each other... no strings attached....
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