I didn't move out of my apt. I just packed and was ready too. I did talk to them and had to write a note saying I changed my mind.
I am not running back to philly, I like florida. When he changed his mind I panicked thinking I had no place to go and had to get out since I gave my notice. It was my first reaction. I am ok now.

We did talk and I do understand it was too soon. I don't think he handled it the correct way. He should of thought it through before asking me to move in but that is ok.
When we talked he said he just wants to do it the right way. So, I will see what happens but I am not going to wait long. I lost some respect for him, I still care for him but I am not going to be at his beckon call anymore. Maybe I will date other men that depends on if he starts to put more effort into the relationship.

Yeah and I did cut the crouch out of my daughters fathers pants when I found out 2 hours after I gave birth he was out with his new girlfriend after 10 years of being with him. I also wiped her diapers on his windshield with a note saying this is from your daughter..lol..she is 19 now and never met him..he moved to AZ with that girlfriend...What a loser he was..

Thanks to all that replied. I will think about what you all said. He is actually coming over tonight so I will talk to him and see if this is going to go anywhere and what he is feeling. I really don't want to go home (Phila) it is cold there during the winter lol
Thanks again

Hi Everyone.

I met a what I thought was a wonderful man about 3 months ago and I fell for him. It took me alot of years to get over my marriage break-up and he is the first one since that I let into my heart. I have never had a problem getting dates I just never met anyone that I wanted to date a 2nd time until now.
We had planned on moving in together,his house. I was all packed, gave my apt notice that I was vacating and then he changes his mind.
I just feel crushed. His house was his parents and is now owned by him and 2 siblings but he lives in the house. He tells me they were giving him a hard time because he hasn't known me that long. Yes this is true but I feel that life is short and when you have a chance of happiness you shoud grab it before it slips away. I just felt like we would be great together and I am a giving person so I know I would make him happy. I just think he used this as an excuse that he doesn't feel for me the way I do for him. I would think they would be happy for him. If this is the reason I think they are being selfish and if he really cared he would of stood up for us. He is a grown man and is letting them control his life.
I just don't know what to do now. I moved to florida in feb from Pa and now my family want to send me money to come home.
I told everyone that I was moving in with him and now I feel like a fool. Everyone says I shouldn't see him and I should move on that it was really low what he did but I can't stop feeling the way I do for him. I have been on the single sites and have been talking to a few men but I really don't want anyone else but him but feel like I should go out with other men before he hurts me again.
He did tell me that he loves me but he was drinking at the time so I don't know if he meant it when he said it and have been waiting to see if he says again while being sober, he hasn't.