My comment is especially for Elizabeth,Sparkling Crystal and Blondey 111. The issue of black males will continue to ruminate as long as fear exists. Genetically black men are deemed to be larger, stronger and more muscular than white men and from that bias it tends to elicit biased size perceptions (I will leave you to draw your own conclusions there).

So to Sparkling Crystal..it is not the size but how you use it. Blondey 111, I wonder what experience you have in the subject :)? But my support goes to Elizabeth, who comes from a region with a terrible cultural rights record, because with all that social pressure,that curiosity is where I take my hat of to her, because without all people(s) coming together, the conflict will continue.

Finally, the conversation is a bit vanilla, but I would like to add that what is good for Peter, might not be right for Paul and women have their own way to reach the finale, whilst a small percentage don't get there. As a man, being considerate to a partners needs should be the journey to be on, with a sprinkle of trust and as little of a splash of anxiety as possible.

Peace!

At the end of the day, sex starts in the head!