o my..i just had to add to your post.and i must say nice topic........Most men cant handle curvy women,because there worried about there image or worried about what other people think of them.And that is such a shame,then you have those men that dont mind having a curvy woman behind closed doors,which are usually those that are cheating on the girlfriends.Men and women have alot to learn about each other.One day they might reflect on what there missing or stick to what they have,or stay here and keep searching...