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Tue 07/26/16 04:39 PM

Is that one of the characteristics?


No it is not. I'm just saying be careful . I will state the characteristics now

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Tue 07/26/16 04:33 PM
Be careful who you marry

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Tue 07/26/16 04:26 PM


Yes or No ? And state why you say so
Relationships... No matter what kind are contracts. The needs & wants & desires should be made know immediately. So there is no missunderstanding or false expectation. Otherwise both people are lying to themselves & eachother & are living a lie. If this is a pre marital sex question... Where you want permission to **** without obligation or commitment or responsibility or guilt... Buy condoms & pay someone. At least that is a truth. And there is little discussion & negociation. Hhhhaaa...;~)


Smiles thank you for your answer. I think many get into marriage for the sex part, but what happen when the sex dies? Do you look for another woman? Many doesn't know what marriage is really about ,its more then sex,kissing and hugging.if marriage is built on sex ,love ,kissing and hugging then that marriage won't last.

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Tue 07/26/16 03:37 PM

If he's the right one... In a word.... Fantastic! Lol


How would you know if he is the right one?

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Tue 07/26/16 03:33 PM
Something remarkable about the name Ruth

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Tue 07/26/16 03:28 PM
Marriage like a legal ceremony with friends and family and witnesses

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Tue 07/26/16 03:24 PM
Edited by alchayil on Tue 07/26/16 03:25 PM
Will you give your car keys to an infant to drive even if you love him/her ?

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Tue 07/26/16 03:12 PM

So far so good, OP.

In my experience and observation, people have to make mistakes in several directions before they really understand themselves and the world. So my on word of caution to you would be not to come down on yourself too badly if your latest strategy turns out to have drawbacks of a different kind than the rush-into-love approach you've set aside.

Always more to learn.


Thanks. Yes mistakes are allowed. So when the right one show up we will appreciate that one

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Tue 07/26/16 03:08 PM

You can be in a relationship and still be lonely.


Then you in the wrong relationship my dear. One should never feel lonely. Thats a sign of being in the wrong relationship

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Tue 07/26/16 03:03 PM

I'd like to think that I am being prepared for the greatness of a soul that I can be worthy of.......then I am worthy of the same preparedness.


a prudent wife is from the Lord, brother I pray that God sent you the right wife

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Tue 07/26/16 03:00 PM
To be honest before God, the devil is fighting marriages, and woman if you don't pray for your husband or marriage the devil will destroy it.

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Tue 07/26/16 02:58 PM
I am really sorry if you got dumped after 40years. Like I said singleness is important, when a cake flops you look at the ingredients, the problem might not have been with you , bt there was a problem before you got married, that thing was brought into the marriage by the single one. Sex and love doesn't keep a marriage together but information, as a single guy I'm learning the needs and wants of a woman so that I know what is. The needs of a woman is different from the needs of a man.

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Tue 07/26/16 12:49 PM

yes, if sex and children are important


as a Christian , Gods plan is to remain abstinent unless one is concerned with lust,,


in which case the woman should have a husband and a man should have a wife,

and any potential children , in so many ways, fare better with the commitment of a mother and father as the familys foundation of commitment to each other



True

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Tue 07/26/16 12:47 PM
Divorce is not the issue, the problem lies with the individuals. Baking a cake with rotten eggs will make the cake flop. That's why singleness is important for an individual before entering into marriage. It is wrong to say "my other half" which means you are incomplete. We must be complete when we enter into marriage

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Tue 07/26/16 12:39 PM
Marriage is not mandatory, it is a decision . you can decide to marry or you can decide to get married. As a christian I want to get to get but to the right person that God has in store for me

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Tue 07/26/16 12:25 PM
I dated a older lady I was 25 or just turned 25 i met a 31 old lady ,but it didnt worked out. I prefer somebody younger then me I had my fair share with that one lol. But why are older women interested in younger man, i was only 21 then this 34 year old mother of 3 were interested in me. Ladies please explain

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Tue 07/26/16 12:16 PM
Yes or No ? And state why you say so

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Tue 07/26/16 10:58 AM
Ladies how does it feel dating someone that is 20years younger then you?

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Tue 07/26/16 10:41 AM
Smiles, I see you like high heels

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Tue 07/26/16 10:35 AM
What do you think?