There are men out there that are not all about sex! Take me for instance,a few years ago i survived Prostate Cancer but lost the prostate. I had Sex with my then wife the night before surgery and that was the last time. So you can say that Sex or the lack of it was a Big part of our divorce. we just never talked about it . I guess i kinda withdrew.Anyways im sure there are men like me out there that don't think about the self satisfaction of Sex but just wants to make his partner happy. Sorry i am babbbbling.