My wife and I are on the outs I think. She had sex with another man and now wont have sex with me. She says it is not me she just does not want sex but I cant believe her. She has always wanted sex. I have changed some over the last few years and I am more in touch with my female side and am realizing that I am transgender. She has been with women before but she tells me that she has no intrest in women now. She has broken my heart and I don't know what I can do. Should I try to fix us or Just move on.