I am 40 and in the desert in Iraq. I have lived in many places and have dated some of the best. But in searching deeply within myself about my perfect wife....She must have kids, want them, or at least without a doubt love them unconditionally. I have a beautiful 16 year old daughter Madi. Her Mom Stacy is a great friend of mine. We dated very, very briefly before Madison was born and none since. But we've raised a lovely well-balanced child in this world of broken homes/families. Stacy and I have always built one another up and we took care of Madi. Women who don't want children or the responsibility or whatever just come up short in my book. Your pal and mine, John