You might try putting ice on you lip for the swelling..

Dont sweat the fat top lip....I look like Beaker from the Muppets.

Unless you are allergic to sex...I am thinking that you may pull hrough this......

I would think an older man would have old fashioned values, be more chivalrous/masculine

but nowadays, so many people are trying to NOT BE their age and maintain 'youthful/childlike' qualities that its a real toss up what you might get from an older man

Ok so there is this guy that I have been attracted to since the moment I laid my eyes on him...The problem is that we met at the wrong time...I was just getting out of my last relationship, dealing with health problems with father and grandmother, and finishing up a semester in school. It finally became too much that I told him I wasn't ready for a relationship because I would go to hang out with him, and I wouldn't be very sociable. He told me not to worry about it, and he gave me signals like he would wait for me. I didn't talk to him for over a month, but I thought about him everyday..Finally things in my life were starting to calm down, so I tried to get back together with him to find out that he had a girlfriend. Well I have just found out the he is single again. I talked to my bff which is also friends with him, and she said she thinks that he needs to be single for a while. But I just can't get him outta my head still...When we were together, I could tell something was there, and it's hurting me not knowing if it could have ever been something....what should I do? I don't want to seem desperate or pathetic, and I don't want to embarrass myself and throw myself at him again...HELP

12- You leave them little gifts in surprising places

11- You make sure they have a warm towel waiting every time they get out of the bath/shower

10- You are attracted to their SOUL

9- You play wordgames with their name when they're not around

8- You have more pictures of them than you do your entire family combined

7- You've composed at least one song about them and them alone (but are too scared to sing it to them)

6- You would kill for them

5- You would die for them

4- You have at least one Teddy Bear or Cuddle Pillow that you hold when you cannot hold them at night

3- You actually DON'T watch porn to "do the dirty to yourself", but rather picture their smiling face.

2- You live to make them happy...

1- Finally, you know that no such tiny thing as a restraining order can keep you apart...

TWELVE:

When you’re on the phone with them late at night and they hang up, you still
miss them even when it was just two minutes ago.

ELEVEN:

You walk really slow when you’re with them.

TEN:

You feel shy whenever they’re around.

NINE:

You smile when you hear their voice.

EIGHT:

When you look at them, you can’t see the other people around you, you just see
him/her.

SIX:

They’re all you think about.

FIVE:

You realize you’re always smiling when you’re looking at them.
FOUR:

You would do anything for them, just to see them.

THREE:

While reading this, there was one person on your mind this whole time.

TWO:

You were so busy thinking about that person, you didn’t notice number seven was
missing

ONE:

You just scrolled up to check & are now silently laughing at yourself

Congrats and all the best with your King
It is nice of hearing of happy endings and the happy ever after
Did you find him on Mingle2?

Figures... There's no one in front of me.

Happy for you, Kay! Be happy...

Congratulations! May you have a long and happy life together.

KAY