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Sat 12/15/07 01:05 PM

pleas i beg you for help & advise, i can never make it past the first date without the person i'm with saying that it's not going to work out, in fact 66% of my dates stand me up, i need help & advise or i will die a virgin. pleas message me with advise as i'm sure this topic will get closed.


aren't there any girls your age, or older women where you live?

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Sat 12/15/07 01:01 PM
I dated a guy who was a virgin. He was a 37-year-old hunk who's self esteem was totally screwed up. We didn't work out because he was too emotionally NEEDY. Be strong.

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Sat 12/15/07 12:58 PM

pleas i beg you for help & advise, i can never make it past the first date without the person i'm with saying that it's not going to work out, in fact 66% of my dates stand me up, i need help & advise or i will die a virgin. pleas message me with advise as i'm sure this topic will get closed.


flowerforyou Oh, honey.....You've got to look inward. Begin to ask yourself....What do I want in a relationship? What is she like? WHAT CAN I GIVE HER IN RETURN? Get active/involved with a woman who wants what you want. STOP reinventing the wheel..You cannot make anybody love you, or want to give you anything until YOU ARE ABLE TO LOVE YOURSELF.

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Sat 12/15/07 12:46 PM
Hamilton................?

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Sat 12/15/07 12:25 PM
flowerforyou hi.

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Sat 12/15/07 12:22 PM
It would take a lot of conversations, email, land line, cell phone, place of business.....and as a woman, I'd rather have him meet me at my home with a family member (preferably male) given details of our whereabouts....

Sad to say, there are PROFESSIONAL STALKERS ONLINE...INCLUDING WOMEN. be careful.

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Sat 12/15/07 12:15 PM

mY MOM always told me to play the field.....Im wondering if she meant the entire football team!!!noway :wink: laugh
laugh happy :tongue:

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Sat 12/15/07 12:14 PM

Not all guys do it at all. Thats why I think so many people cheat is because they think everyone else does. Just bs.


IT'S NOT CHEATING if you tell the other person YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE IN MY LIFE.....now, if he makes an overture to commit to a RELATIONSHIP.....THEN that is the second part of the story...

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Sat 12/15/07 12:09 PM

Not all guys do it at all. Thats why I think so many people cheat is because they think everyone else does. Just bs.


That's true. I wouldn't cheat. I'D LET EACH GUY KNOW i'M KEEPING MY OPTIONS OPEN.....heh heh...:smile: :wink: happy :tongue:

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Sat 12/15/07 12:06 PM

I am a one woman guy too

ANOTHER RARE BREED....flowerforyou

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Sat 12/15/07 12:05 PM

mY MOM always told me to play the field.....Im wondering if she meant the entire football team!!!noway :wink: laugh
Cute.:tongue:

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Sat 12/15/07 12:03 PM

I say give it a shot. Not everyone dates three people but in the beggining stages of dating you are just trying to get to know each other. There really isn't any commitment at that point yet so there is no real reason you shouldn't be open to dating other people.

The thing is you can't date three people for very long. as things develope past the getting to know each other stage you will see things working better with some than others and will usually narrow themselves down naturally. As long as you are upfront with the guys you are dating and they know you aren't committed to just them for now have at it meet some people and enjoy. Thats why its just dating and not a relationship.

Be warned it sounds like alot of fun but at least from personal experience it is not all its cracked up to be. Most people have trouble dealing with a single relationship, you start trying to make 3 of them work and things get really difficuilt, but it can be a fun rewarding way to see what you like about each guy and compare to find the one who is really right for you.
Truer words were never spoken. Just thought I'd give it a shot. Who knows?:smile:

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Sat 12/15/07 12:01 PM
heh heh...laugh flowerforyou

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Sat 12/15/07 12:00 PM


go for it guys do it


I dont.

I'm a one woman man.

Always have been.


You're 1 in a MILLION. It seems guys I talk to lately want to play with their _____________, phone sex and GO NOWHERE...That's why I'm re-thinking my options....DATE 3 AT A TIME...OR MORE...happy

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Sat 12/15/07 11:57 AM

Back in my 30's I had 3 dates in one day!!
:tongue: GO GIRL!!!!!!!!

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Sat 12/15/07 11:56 AM

3 "HEADS" are better then one i guess.!! lol
NOW IF ONLY 3 GUYS COULD TAKE THE LEFT HAND OUT OF THEIR PANTS, AND THE RIGHT HAND HAND OFF THE KEYBOARD, WELL....MAYBE.....laugh

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Sat 12/15/07 11:52 AM

I'm not sure I could find one to date.laugh
Isn't that the truth these days? WHERE HAVE ALL THE BEAUTIFUL GONE??????laugh

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Sat 12/15/07 11:51 AM
Kewl. A young one, an old one, and a.......I guess i'll fill in the blank later........................lol...hee hee.laugh

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Sat 12/15/07 11:48 AM
I feel I'm at my best in a 1 on 1 relationship. Lately, I've wondered what it would be like to just DATE 3 OR MORE GUYS A WEEK. Absolutely no commitment, assurance, fidelity, promises, not even the promise of sex, UNLESS HE'S REALLY HOT.

Ladies, what do you think?

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Sat 12/15/07 11:37 AM
This is a great site to make PLATONIC FRIENDS, but I agree. It's not the best for meeting anyone in our locale, vicinity or state where face to face dating can be achieved. Good luck.