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Tue 04/12/11 10:36 AM



hey sunshine flowerforyou Glad you are back

HEY....I'm both a jerk and an idiot and you :heart: me laugh


Thanks.happy

Well, you're sweet about it, so you can pull it off.laugh laugh


so I'm the exception?? See I keep telling everyone I'm special laugh


Yes, you are practically perfect in every way.

Special is good!:banana: rofl rofl

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Tue 04/12/11 10:33 AM

hey sunshine flowerforyou Glad you are back

HEY....I'm both a jerk and an idiot and you :heart: me laugh


Thanks.happy

Well, you're sweet about it, so you can pull it off.laugh laugh

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Tue 04/12/11 10:30 AM





Hey im not in stealth mode. so if I view you and like you I will email you, if i just view you, doesnt mean i dont like you, it just means I am curious about your age, your location....


Yep, but unfortunately lots of people assume you're interested in them just because you looked. I mainly look because the photo is too small to see clearly without viewing the profile.


or, the pic they have doesn't really define their gender/sex...(haha, i had to throw that in there, just for you)flowerforyou


Haha, although you're right, there have been a couple of guys on here that I thought were girls til I viewed their profiles and vice versa. That's kind of....scary.


i was laughing at the gender comment, just so you know... but yea, some have other pics like i do, that you can't always tell who or what they are...


Oh I know. Well, I don't mind the pics like yours, it's just odd when someone actually looks like a woman or a man you view their profile and you're wrong. And it's like ooops, I almost hit on that person. LOL

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Tue 04/12/11 10:28 AM

It is really sad to me that there are so many people that don't accept bisexuals.. I mean, it's almost comparable to a person of mixed race (let's just say African american/Caucasian mix)... this person might have a hard time fitting in with "black" people because they have lighter skin or a different hair texture.. and they don't fit in with the "white" people because they have a darker skin tone and different hair. It's a no win situation.. we just have to stand up and be strong. I feel sad that I am not fully accepted by straight people or gay people, but I guess we all have our struggles and this is one of mine. I feel as if I did not choose to be bisexual.. I honestly don't see how someone could not be attracted to women as well as men.. and that's why I am bi! lmao.. all in all.. I will just have to live with the fact that I am not going to be liked by people who don't understand where I am coming from or people that choose ignorance over acceptance. I do not want one of each.. I want to find my life partner.. and I am willing to look at either sex for that person.. so hate me if you'd like :p


I accept everyone except jerks and idiots. So if you're neither of those, you're fine with me.

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Tue 04/12/11 10:25 AM



Hey im not in stealth mode. so if I view you and like you I will email you, if i just view you, doesnt mean i dont like you, it just means I am curious about your age, your location....


Yep, but unfortunately lots of people assume you're interested in them just because you looked. I mainly look because the photo is too small to see clearly without viewing the profile.


or, the pic they have doesn't really define their gender/sex...(haha, i had to throw that in there, just for you)flowerforyou


Haha, although you're right, there have been a couple of guys on here that I thought were girls til I viewed their profiles and vice versa. That's kind of....scary.

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Tue 04/12/11 10:17 AM

Hey im not in stealth mode. so if I view you and like you I will email you, if i just view you, doesnt mean i dont like you, it just means I am curious about your age, your location....


Yep, but unfortunately lots of people assume you're interested in them just because you looked. I mainly look because the photo is too small to see clearly without viewing the profile.

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Tue 04/12/11 10:14 AM


you know, even when i make a female friend just to set an example....my s.o. never points to that. all they ever say is "i know she wants to be more than just friends with you." then i say "so your male friends wanna be more with you, right?" then she says, "no, that's different". and the cycle of hypocrisy in most of my relationships goes on.


I had an ex before and he had so many female friends, but I didn't think much of it. There were women "friends" on his facebook that were just too "sweet" for comfort. I have male best friends, but I would never post in their face book page that I love them, especially knowing they are already with someone. That's just plain unethical, in my opinion, especially if they're not even THAT close to begin with.

There are friends who pretend to be friends, but are in fact only waiting for a time when the couple would hit a rocky patch in their relationship. That's when they become the oh-so sympathetic-cry-on-my-shoulder-because-she-doesn't-understand-you-like-I-do kind of friend. That's the one you should watch out for, because as there are genuine friends of the opposite sex, there are weasels too.

If the partner has been really good friends with them before you were a couple, and she isn't averse to having you join them whenever, then I would not worry. But you have to give her the same courtesy. Worrying about a relationship is not necessarily an indication of paranoia. There are women (or men) who would jump at the chance of coming between a couple in the guise of friendship.


This is the best response ever.flowerforyou

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Tue 04/12/11 10:12 AM
Welcome and good luck to you. I hate where I live, too.

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Tue 04/12/11 10:11 AM
Nope.

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Tue 04/12/11 10:07 AM

here is my take....

nothing wrong with being who you are or liking what you like. Unless you have an "open relationship" when both agree to it, acting on it is cheating.

Some people do have open relationships of different kinds. Both agree to it and are ok with it. As long as the 3rd party knows and all agrees, then it's no ones business but the parties involved. When one or more aren't in agreement, then it's cheating IMO

only you can decide if it is right or wrong. It may be wrong for someone else but that is for them. It's no one's business if it is right or wrong for you


:thumbsup:

Btw, hi Kim.flowerforyou

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Mon 04/11/11 05:47 PM









I'm totally straight, but those are really awesome boobies.laugh

Yeah, Right!!:wink: laugh laugh tongue2 :angel: smokin


Don't believe what you've heard!!laugh :tongue:

so true. better to see them to believe them laugh


laugh laugh laugh :tongue:

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Mon 04/11/11 05:40 PM
I sent you an email.:smile:

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Mon 04/11/11 05:38 PM
laugh

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Mon 04/11/11 05:17 PM

Tall man with a long third leg is suffice---love noway flowerforyou :heart: smooched


rofl rofl rofl :thumbsup:

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Mon 04/11/11 05:09 PM
waving

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Mon 04/11/11 05:08 PM




Gender is defined by society and culture anyway, it's not biological.

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huh?



There's a difference between gender and sex.

from http://www.thefreedictionary.com/gender

1. Grammar
a. A grammatical category used in the classification of nouns, pronouns, adjectives, and, in some languages, verbs that may be arbitrary or based on characteristics such as sex or animacy and that determines agreement with or selection of modifiers, referents, or grammatical forms.
b. One category of such a set.
c. The classification of a word or grammatical form in such a category.
d. The distinguishing form or forms used.
2. Sexual identity, especially in relation to society or culture.
3.
a. The condition of being female or male; sex.
b. Females or males considered as a group: expressions used by one gender.
tr.v. gen·dered, gen·der·ing, gen·ders



Monash University > Medicine, Nursing and Health Sciences > Gender and Medicine >
What is the difference between sex and gender?

Sex = male and female

Gender = masculine and feminine

So in essence:

Sex refers to biological differences; chromosomes, hormonal profiles, internal and external sex organs.

Gender describes the characteristics that a society or culture delineates as masculine or feminine.

So while your sex as male or female is a biological fact that is the same in any culture, what that sex means in terms of your gender role as a 'man' or a 'woman' in society can be quite different cross culturally. These 'gender roles' have an impact on the health of the individual.

In sociological terms 'gender role' refers to the characteristics and behaviours that different cultures attribute to the sexes. What it means to be a 'real man' in any culture requires male sex plus what our various cultures define as masculine characteristics and behaviours, likewise a 'real woman' needs female sex and feminine characteristics. To summarise:

'man' = male sex+ masculine social role

(a 'real man', 'masculine' or 'manly')

'woman' = female sex + feminine social role

(a 'real woman', 'feminine' or 'womanly')


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Mon 04/11/11 04:58 PM

you don't think i feel inadequate in comparison with other men?! ;p
sarcasm intended....


I have no idea how you feel in relation to other men, you've only described her reaction to other women.

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Mon 04/11/11 04:55 PM


Gender is defined by society and culture anyway, it's not biological.

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huh?



There's a difference between gender and sex.

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Mon 04/11/11 04:53 PM
She has trust issues. That or she feels inadequate in comparison to other women. Either way, I'd be leery of that.

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Mon 04/11/11 04:51 PM
Anytime.

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