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Mon 08/24/09 12:53 AM



Not trying to show animosity, sorry if that is how it seemed. And i see where you are trying to make a point; however, just because i called myself a bbw doesnt mean i think i look like one of those porn girls that the industry personifies. Those woman disgust even me. But i am a big woman, and i feel that i am beautiful. So if i call myself bbw im not putting myself down for it. And im sure neither were any of the other ladies here.


I know you arent trying to put yourself down

Just trying to tell you...that by calling yourself a BBW...men think that

cuz guess what? most men, the ones as earthyt said, like fatty parts...do not see inner beauty


I dunno, I thnk its prefrnce again Billy, I often ate attracted to men who are cuban, sicilian, italian, and brazilian. Those are some of my prefrences, but anyone nice, and attractive to me are fine.


SO you mean, you like tan guys?

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Mon 08/24/09 12:52 AM
They can learn...but they won't

And I'm not here to teach..so...I wish them all luck...bc I can predict what will happen to everyone in this room...........but I won'tbigsmile

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Mon 08/24/09 12:49 AM


say it three more times gypsy.

I think she did.. can ya.. can ya just.. can ya lean over andd.. kiss your bicep for us?


ha ha




Women. I tell ya.

Just look at guys like me and think we are a big piece of meat. a big filet minon. Well I tell ya..

There is so much more to me!!!!


laugh

just kiddin.


I look at you and wonder if you realize your zipper is down

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Mon 08/24/09 12:44 AM

Not trying to show animosity, sorry if that is how it seemed. And i see where you are trying to make a point; however, just because i called myself a bbw doesnt mean i think i look like one of those porn girls that the industry personifies. Those woman disgust even me. But i am a big woman, and i feel that i am beautiful. So if i call myself bbw im not putting myself down for it. And im sure neither were any of the other ladies here.


I know you arent trying to put yourself down

Just trying to tell you...that by calling yourself a BBW...men think that

cuz guess what? most men, the ones as earthyt said, like fatty parts...do not see inner beauty

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Mon 08/24/09 12:43 AM


Tell ya what I think

Guys who "only" like skinny girls..and not like "women" in general (which would be me - I have no preference big small)..those kinds of guys are the ones who, typical are also attractive, yes?, we are talkin about the attractive guys right? Yeah...so anyways...those attractive guys are worried about what THEY will LOOK like NEXT to that girl

bottom line

Real men, like myself.......we are more concerned with how we can make ourselves feel around the girl. So their body size doesnt really matter


thats goin on my profile somewhere, thats what I think

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Mon 08/24/09 12:42 AM
I said, I may have lost my mind...and I was just making sure you knew I didn't...since I was being sarcastic

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Mon 08/24/09 12:39 AM
et i'll pay for half the plane ticket

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Mon 08/24/09 12:38 AM

And it also says for women to stand tall..... and I am

and you might have lost your mind before page 2. "To me" that is...
laugh laugh laugh



I havent lost my mind

I just say how I feel, and tell it how it is but don't do so by offending others

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Mon 08/24/09 12:34 AM


there are men out there who are attracted to very big women......who are called BBWs

plus size women shop at Lane Bryant

it is two totally different things

Where do bbws shop? The bbw store? Um i believe its also called a plus size store.


Munchiebellic...whats with the animosity? Got no prob with you. You can be a BBW...and yes, you shop at the same stores as "plus size" girls..I get ya. But, I shop at the same store as a professional golfer...doesn't make me Tiger Woods

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Mon 08/24/09 12:32 AM



What Im saying is, lotta men liking the fat parts goin on. Passionately.



right

but...why? why do men like the fat parts, as you said


I dont know why.. why do they like the skinny ones?


They say they like the way the curves run, the sillohette, (however you spell it, they like to grab you by the hips, and have something more to grab.. they like to squeeze your body in their hands, and the way it feels.. they like to run their hands over where it curves. They like a soft body against them, and in their hands..

etc.



Tell ya what I think

Guys who "only" like skinny girls..and not like "women" in general (which would be me - I have no preference big small)..those kinds of guys are the ones who, typical are also attractive, yes?, we are talkin about the attractive guys right? Yeah...so anyways...those attractive guys are worried about what THEY will LOOK like NEXT to that girl

bottom line

Real men, like myself.......we are more concerned with how we can make ourselves feel around the girl. So their body size doesnt really matter

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Mon 08/24/09 12:28 AM
there are men out there who are attracted to very big women......who are called BBWs

plus size women shop at Lane Bryant

it is two totally different things

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Mon 08/24/09 12:27 AM



BBW just means plus size darling..... thats all


darlin, no it doesnt


obviously to you it doesn´t........ lol

to me is does........





Then say, "to me" next time...bc the question was asked about what men thought...wasn't it?

And I am telling her what men think

You think I'm making it up? Maybe I just lost my mind somewhere between page 2 and 4...who knows

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Mon 08/24/09 12:24 AM
if a woman says to me, "I am a BBW"...I take that totally different than her saying..."I am plus size"

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Mon 08/24/09 12:23 AM

BBW just means plus size darling..... thats all


darlin, no it doesnt

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Mon 08/24/09 12:21 AM

What Im saying is, lotta men liking the fat parts goin on. Passionately.



right

but...why? why do men like the fat parts, as you said

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Mon 08/24/09 12:20 AM
you need to be big and beautiful to be a bbw


i love beautiful women

i love big women

just because youre big, doesnt make you beautiful


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Mon 08/24/09 12:18 AM
i do not understand what is happening.......

so...now...wait

okay so earthyt...you're saying...what?

and...so now we are saying that a bbw is that hot *** girl in that lingerie?

if so i wanna see it on the girl in the picture i posted.......


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Mon 08/24/09 12:11 AM
this conversation is bizarre

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Mon 08/24/09 12:07 AM


wow

here is what i got to say to you four: mscherbear, Marie55, earthytaurus76 and Pata...........

I honestly think a woman is the most complicated creature on the planet

and to you munchiebellic:

As I said, BBW makes me think of porn or somethin, so that is the response I'm giving you to your initial post which was asking what do men think about BBWs, right?

If a woman calls herself a BBW, thats a turnoff

And I'm out if ya'll are talking about clothes now, however that happened


Billy, I think women are complicated but so are men, guess that is what makes the world go round.

I don't call myself a BBW, but I have lost an extreme amount of weight in the last year and a half, just never used that label on myself. I do believe it is important that a person have confidence in who they are and carry themselves well. I had never heard the size issue mentioned above until now either (as to how to gauge a BBW) so that was new to me too. I think it is hard to overcome the stigma of being overweight when you have been beat up about it your whole life, that was what I commented on above. I am working on that issue now, dealing with the issues of getting my head straight.

Again, I am glad you are not one of the judgmental and shallow people who sits back and judges every woman they see instantly on her appearance and what they "think" the perfect woman "should" look like. We get that daily on TV with the super models and TV stars, etc. Again, thank you for your post.



i just dont like seeing women "calling themselves" names to justify things, and then they get themselves in bad situations...if i didnt say somethin one of you ladies may have been walkin thru lane bryant and asked where the bbw section was....that would have been bad...

i love women...i love beautiful women...i love small women...i love big women....doesnt mean i love bbws

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Mon 08/24/09 12:05 AM

i went to yahoo.com

clicked images

typed bbw

the second picture, top row of the results is this




i will not show you the first one...



and the 4th picture...hmmm...

ya...so who is a bbw now?

and that is why its a turn off pata

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