Hi everyone! Just wondering what kind of minglers are out there, and what has worked (or because we're all still here...) what hasn't worked. Are you a HUNTER/send messages and nudges? or a GATHERER/and just hoping that special someone comes along? Its nice to mix it up and try implementing both techniques, but why is it that the ones you message don't message you back, or the ones you don't want to message you message you? Is it Murphy's Law of dating sites? Hoping for some good replies....or bad ones....either way....reply.