So if you had to choose one I'm the guy who needs compromise not love or sex

Regardless you have both
I have what's in between my legs and you have yours that can compromise if we worked together. we can create what we want together from one another together.
Give and receive you get now
Give and wait you get delay
Give and no [ill wait]no don't(no and why should I give love) unless he decide to compromise then that's his action (how long do I have to wait) that's when decision are made. You get no love fighting or sex forcing. But you can love fighting and wait for sex without forcing.

So I get both