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All of the above~~ as far as looks if I'm not attracted to them it ain't gonna happen.. And attraction does not always constitute good looking.. some times it is their smile or their personality~~ As far as Religion as long as they do not push it on me or believes in things I can not deal with then it really does not matter that much to me.. As far as financial as long as they have a income for I'm not supporting anyone nor do I expect them to.. Distance is a downer for me if they live too far away local only.. |
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wgat one of those do matter in love ?
1 : long distances 2 : deffirent religion 3 : financial level 4 : the look ( handsome or not ) |
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I have known for a long time that the images of bomb-throwing , sexist people heavily displayed in the media are not the full representation of who ALL muslims are. I am Christian in my beliefs, but on my island of Trinidad, i have had the pleasure of being taught secularly by a number of Muslims , studied secularly with them at school, celebrated with them at their ceremonies/festivals , dined with them at their homes ,played with their kids and interacted with their family and friends for decades. I have also been extremely close friends with a devoted hijab -wearing East Indian woman since high school till today . I have intimately witnessed her and her family' life and the practice of her religion over the last 25 years. What I experienced personally are people who are sincere , tolerent , equal partners in marriage and child rearing, and gracious and peaceful in nature and this is not uncommon in my country The majority of people who hold the view that all Muslims are terrorists have based it on the 9/11 attack on America ,as well as very strategic images heavily displayed in the media and things they have read. These violent images and experiences are valid , evil and INEXCUSABLE, but they are not the full representation of who all muslims are... anymore than the Hitlers, land pillagers, slave masters ,and perpetrators of Apartheid are the full representation of who ALL Caucasians are. Thank you so much for sharing it's not just the 19 terrorists that killed 3000 people on 9-11, it's the thousands of terrorists worldwide that are still killing and causing problems everywhere since then... if you're locked in a room with 10 people and you know 2 of them are going to kill someone in the room, are you going to trust everyone in the room? trust is researched and earned, not given because everyone in the room says it isn't them... i agree, it's a hard time for muslims right now.. but who is to really blame, muslims or everyone else? scared and pissed off people don't care about who the nice people are, after all, out 1.6 billion muslims, it only took 19 to kill 3000 people in less than an hour, only one runs into a shopping mall and kills 30 people... everyone knows not all muslims are bad, but the nice ones are not what people are worried about... i deal with all sorts of different types of muslims during the day, all of them seem very nice and polite... but like i said, it only takes one bad apple to ruin the barrel... my guess would be the CIA created the terrorists, but that's still not an excuse for acting like that.. Terrorism is something that can't be stopped very quick... it calls for lots of teaching and forgiving on both sides, but that is just a pipe dream... religious fanatics are insane, they cannot be reasoned with very well... no arguments from me... but i think only other muslims can stop it.. |
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I have known for a long time that the images of bomb-throwing , sexist people heavily displayed in the media are not the full representation of who ALL muslims are. I am Christian in my beliefs, but on my island of Trinidad, i have had the pleasure of being taught secularly by a number of Muslims , studied secularly with them at school, celebrated with them at their ceremonies/festivals , dined with them at their homes ,played with their kids and interacted with their family and friends for decades. I have also been extremely close friends with a devoted hijab -wearing East Indian woman since high school till today . I have intimately witnessed her and her family' life and the practice of her religion over the last 25 years. What I experienced personally are people who are sincere , tolerent , equal partners in marriage and child rearing, and gracious and peaceful in nature and this is not uncommon in my country The majority of people who hold the view that all Muslims are terrorists have based it on the 9/11 attack on America ,as well as very strategic images heavily displayed in the media and things they have read. These violent images and experiences are valid , evil and INEXCUSABLE, but they are not the full representation of who all muslims are... anymore than the Hitlers, land pillagers, slave masters ,and perpetrators of Apartheid are the full representation of who ALL Caucasians are. Thank you so much for sharing it's not just the 19 terrorists that killed 3000 people on 9-11, it's the thousands of terrorists worldwide that are still killing and causing problems everywhere since then... if you're locked in a room with 10 people and you know 2 of them are going to kill someone in the room, are you going to trust everyone in the room? trust is researched and earned, not given because everyone in the room says it isn't them... i agree, it's a hard time for muslims right now.. but who is to really blame, muslims or everyone else? scared and pissed off people don't care about who the nice people are, after all, out 1.6 billion muslims, it only took 19 to kill 3000 people in less than an hour, only one runs into a shopping mall and kills 30 people... everyone knows not all muslims are bad, but the nice ones are not what people are worried about... i deal with all sorts of different types of muslims during the day, all of them seem very nice and polite... but like i said, it only takes one bad apple to ruin the barrel... my guess would be the CIA created the terrorists, but that's still not an excuse for acting like that.. Terrorism is something that can't be stopped very quick... it calls for lots of teaching and forgiving on both sides, but that is just a pipe dream... religious fanatics are insane, they cannot be reasoned with very well... |
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a message to those who think they have the right to judge others even if they dont know them .. im muslim ... but im not terrorist im muslim ... but i dont like what the islamic state do im muslim ... but i love people and don`t want to let any space inside my heart for hate im muslim ... but i love others , and love to forgive im muslim ... but i have a heart that love and forgive and cry im muslim ... but i cant judge you if i dont know you im muslim ... but im romantic and love flowers and butterflies im muslim ... and get to know me before you judge me , cause you dont love that some one judges you before he knows you ! thanks for reading . im a christion and i feel u... not all muslims are terrorist and likes people to suffer..ive meet filipino-muslims they help others and gave food to strangers..they talk with christians and laughing unlike others... so people dont generalize it, some muslims are good but some are not just like not all christians are good. . No problem, I understand you. :) Just keep on going, God is with you. There's just people who are so judgmental, who discrimate a lot and racist, we cant change them. That's who they are though it hurts us what they say about us we should just ignore them. Remember a dog wont bark if he knows the person. |
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crying heart
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I have known for a long time that the images of bomb-throwing , sexist people heavily displayed in the media are not the full representation of who ALL muslims are. I am Christian in my beliefs, but on my island of Trinidad, i have had the pleasure of being taught secularly by a number of Muslims , studied secularly with them at school, celebrated with them at their ceremonies/festivals , dined with them at their homes ,played with their kids and interacted with their family and friends for decades. I have also been extremely close friends with a devoted hijab -wearing East Indian woman since high school till today . I have intimately witnessed her and her family' life and the practice of her religion over the last 25 years. What I experienced personally are people who are sincere , tolerent , equal partners in marriage and child rearing, and gracious and peaceful in nature and this is not uncommon in my country The majority of people who hold the view that all Muslims are terrorists have based it on the 9/11 attack on America ,as well as very strategic images heavily displayed in the media and things they have read. These violent images and experiences are valid , evil and INEXCUSABLE, but they are not the full representation of who all muslims are... anymore than the Hitlers, land pillagers, slave masters ,and perpetrators of Apartheid are the full representation of who ALL Caucasians are. Thank you so much for sharing it's not just the 19 terrorists that killed 3000 people on 9-11, it's the thousands of terrorists worldwide that are still killing and causing problems everywhere since then... if you're locked in a room with 10 people and you know 2 of them are going to kill someone in the room, are you going to trust everyone in the room? trust is researched and earned, not given because everyone in the room says it isn't them... i agree, it's a hard time for muslims right now.. but who is to really blame, muslims or everyone else? scared and pissed off people don't care about who the nice people are, after all, out 1.6 billion muslims, it only took 19 to kill 3000 people in less than an hour, only one runs into a shopping mall and kills 30 people... everyone knows not all muslims are bad, but the nice ones are not what people are worried about... i deal with all sorts of different types of muslims during the day, all of them seem very nice and polite... but like i said, it only takes one bad apple to ruin the barrel... |
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a message to those who think they have the right to judge others even if they dont know them .. im muslim ... but im not terrorist im muslim ... but i dont like what the islamic state do im muslim ... but i love people and don`t want to let any space inside my heart for hate im muslim ... but i love others , and love to forgive im muslim ... but i have a heart that love and forgive and cry im muslim ... but i cant judge you if i dont know you im muslim ... but im romantic and love flowers and butterflies im muslim ... and get to know me before you judge me , cause you dont love that some one judges you before he knows you ! thanks for reading Welcome to Mingle... As far as judging someone.. Don't we all do that in some way. I could stand up and say I don't but that would be a lie. I do instead try to judge each person with an open mind on their own merits. Sometimes I will admit that is hard to do. |
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I have known for a long time that the images of bomb-throwing , sexist people heavily displayed in the media are not the full representation of who ALL muslims are. I am Christian in my beliefs, but on my island of Trinidad, i have had the pleasure of being taught secularly by a number of Muslims , studied secularly with them at school, celebrated with them at their ceremonies/festivals , dined with them at their homes ,played with their kids and interacted with their family and friends for decades. I have also been extremely close friends with a devoted hijab -wearing East Indian woman since high school till today . I have intimately witnessed her and her family' life and the practice of her religion over the last 25 years. What I experienced personally are people who are sincere , tolerent , equal partners in marriage and child rearing, and gracious and peaceful in nature and this is not uncommon in my country The majority of people who hold the view that all Muslims are terrorists have based it on the 9/11 attack on America ,as well as very strategic images heavily displayed in the media and things they have read. These violent images and experiences are valid , evil and INEXCUSABLE, but they are not the full representation of who all muslims are... anymore than the Hitlers, land pillagers, slave masters ,and perpetrators of Apartheid are the full representation of who ALL Caucasians are. Thank you so much for sharing Hi Peggy, What you wrote here touched me. I am a Muslim. I was brought up in Singapore where my neighbours and friends are Chinese, Malay, Indian and Eurasion. We are of different races and religions but we live in harmony. Thank you so much. |
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crying heart
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I have known for a long time that the images of bomb-throwing , sexist people heavily displayed in the media are not the full representation of who ALL muslims are. I am Christian in my beliefs, but on my island of Trinidad, i have had the pleasure of being taught secularly by a number of Muslims , studied secularly with them at school, celebrated with them at their ceremonies/festivals , dined with them at their homes ,played with their kids and interacted with their family and friends for decades. I have also been extremely close friends with a devoted hijab -wearing East Indian woman since high school till today . I have intimately witnessed her and her family' life and the practice of her religion over the last 25 years. What I experienced personally are people who are sincere , tolerent , equal partners in marriage and child rearing, and gracious and peaceful in nature and this is not uncommon in my country The majority of people who hold the view that all Muslims are terrorists have based it on the 9/11 attack on America ,as well as very strategic images heavily displayed in the media and things they have read. These violent images and experiences are valid , evil and INEXCUSABLE, but they are not the full representation of who all muslims are... anymore than the Hitlers, land pillagers, slave masters ,and perpetrators of Apartheid are the full representation of who ALL Caucasians are. Thank you so much for sharing it's not just the 19 terrorists that killed 3000 people on 9-11, it's the thousands of terrorists worldwide that are still killing and causing problems everywhere since then... if you're locked in a room with 10 people and you know 2 of them are going to kill someone in the room, are you going to trust everyone in the room? trust is researched and earned, not given because everyone in the room says it isn't them... |
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crying heart
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I have known for a long time that the images of bomb-throwing , sexist people heavily displayed in the media are not the full representation of who ALL muslims are. I am Christian in my beliefs, but on my island of Trinidad, i have had the pleasure of being taught secularly by a number of Muslims , studied secularly with them at school, celebrated with them at their ceremonies/festivals , dined with them at their homes ,played with their kids and interacted with their family and friends for decades. I have also been extremely close friends with a devoted hijab -wearing East Indian woman since high school till today . I have intimately witnessed her and her family' life and the practice of her religion over the last 25 years. What I experienced personally are people who are sincere , tolerent , equal partners in marriage and child rearing, and gracious and peaceful in nature and this is not uncommon in my country The majority of people who hold the view that all Muslims are terrorists have based it on the 9/11 attack on America ,as well as very strategic images heavily displayed in the media and things they have read. These violent images and experiences are valid , evil and INEXCUSABLE, but they are not the full representation of who all muslims are... anymore than the Hitlers, land pillagers, slave masters ,and perpetrators of Apartheid are the full representation of who ALL Caucasians are. Thank you so much for sharing |
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love is responsbility
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If you have a flower
and you want it to keep alive and beautiful , what you should do ? of course giving it your kind hand with water , that is exactly LOVE , if you want it to keep alive , be responsible and give it your kind hand , mind , heart and soul , LOVE is responsbility ! |
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love is responsbility
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If you have a flower
and you want it to keep alive and beautiful , what you should do ? of course giving it your kind hand with water , that is exactly LOVE , if you want it to keep alive , be responsible and give it your kind hand , mind , heart and soul , LOVE is responsbility ! |
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thanks a lot :) nice seeing you :)
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Hate is never rational .. Born of ignorance and fear .. I cannot imagine what it is like to be judged and condemned for something that is so close to your heart .. That is as much a part of you as your identity . From my heart to yours .. A warm welcome :-) |
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I feel you.. I have muslim friends and loved one. Our beliefs are not barriers to get to know more of our different cultures. Peace be upon you! peace be upon you :) |
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:)
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That's a great perspective to have I think , and she should do the same for you :) |
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nice to have you here my friend :)
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a message to those who think they have the right to judge others even if they dont know them .. im muslim ... but im not terrorist im muslim ... but i dont like what the islamic state do im muslim ... but i love people and don`t want to let any space inside my heart for hate im muslim ... but i love others , and love to forgive im muslim ... but i have a heart that love and forgive and cry im muslim ... but i cant judge you if i dont know you im muslim ... but im romantic and love flowers and butterflies im muslim ... and get to know me before you judge me , cause you dont love that some one judges you before he knows you ! thanks for reading . im a christion and i feel u... not all muslims are terrorist and likes people to suffer..ive meet filipino-muslims they help others and gave food to strangers..they talk with christians and laughing unlike others... so people dont generalize it, some muslims are good but some are not just like not all christians are good. |
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Being judged for what you believe in is hard. Hang in there |
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