SweetLilGal,

I think uk1971 had some good points. Read that one again.

In your post you said "I put a lot of trust
into them. And I try my hardest to be the best girlfriend I can be."
Perhaps you shouldn't try so hard. Really! Imbalance exists when one
person wants the relationship way more than the other person does. I've
been on both sides of this, and neither one is all that much fun.

Instead of trying so hard (and therefor "hiding" the real you that the
other person may not like), just treat the budding relationship as a
discovery process; let it evolve.