He doesn't want advice. He just wants to be told he is right.

BJPE: You're awful cute. Are the women in MN blind???

Grab my son, who screams and runs away from me. The most he will do is
shake my hand!

mike4001: Rush is on tour this summer.

Right, to me, baggage is something you need to resolve before you can
move forward with your life.

I define baggage as left over unresolved issues from previous
relationships.

I have been hanging out on the wrong boards. I have NO idea what is
going on.

calling all libras--stay the h*ll away from me. I need a good cancer
man! (I have had very, very bad luck w/libras!)

C'mon, let's see what he's packin!

The girl is at home, going, "How long will it be until he calls? Does he
like me? Hate me? Did I make a mistake by giving him my number? Was I
too forward? How long should I wait until he calls? If he doesn't call
me, should I call him? How long should I wait until after he doesn't
call, before I call him? If I wait too long, will he think I don't like
him? If I call right away, do I seem too eager?"

Finally, the phone rings, and

So you are actually putting 2 people out of misery by calling right
away.

I agree with thedoctor, and those who agree with thedoctor, lol. These
head games will sent you running screaming into the night with only the
clothes on your back (wait, don't wait, wait this long, no wait that
long).

Well, it is by choice in that I am choosing not to have sex w/out an
emotional committment.

Thanks for the words of encouragement, thedoctor!
"I went for 10 years once...now it's easy..."

So now I am looking to date guys in their early 40s. If I have to run
the risk of the bs, at least it is going to come from a young stud, lol.

Sorry iRon, I have to disagree. I'm 46 and have been dating men in their
50s. They are no better just because they are older. Just means they are
more set in their ways. A lot of people just grow older, they don't grow
up.

I am in the same basket as tantilizingtulip. It has been so long, I
think my virginity has grown back. Is that possible?

iRon: "Blinded by the light. . ."

Maybe men get fed up and leave more often than women; women form
friendships with other women here, and that makes it worth staying even
if you don't find a date.

Me, too; I was gonna write him, and he is gone.

Dont' call manwich if you are ugly--remember, he said he would not date
an unattractive woman.