Well, yes. It is good to be able to agree to disagree, but would you say yes to three different opinions without having your own?

I think not.

Shoot, invisibility booster broken again.

So far everyone pretty much feels the same way I do.

I rather prefer to be me as well.

Yeah, I know.

I don't think either of us has a chance in that sort of competition.

Now, none of us come here to make enemies, quite the contrary I would think.
But would you want to be liked by everyone?
Not only online, but in real life too?

I never claim to be nice, because I’m not.
I’m opinionated, I have an attitude and I have a sometimes wicked sense of humour.
So I’m not everyone’s cup of tea to begin with.
And, to be honest, I don’t want to be, because there are people that would just put me off, that’s me, and that’s the way it is. Of course, I do have my times when I’m sorta moody, or when I get angry for that matter. Then I log off and wait until I have my cool back, no biggy.

Of course, we are all different.
I see quite a lot like me, then there are the ones picking an argument whenever they can, and there are the ‘sucker uppers’.

Now, these are a totally different kettle of fish. They agree with everything anyone might say, and if they have to take a different position 3 times in the same thread, they will do so. It seems they want to be liked by everyone, no matter how high the price, they just want to belong. And when they think someone looked the wrong way at them, they hide their profile and sulk, but never for long, after a few minutes they are back and post some place else. Quite a moody lot it seems.

I was thinking about that, and wondered if I ever wanted to be like that. And I decided, no way. I’d rather be me, have a few friends and no need to pretend to be something I’m not, and that is NICE.

I was wondering whether it is just insecurity that makes people wanting to be nice.

Also, how do others perceive these ‘jay – sayers’?

Would others want to date them?
I mean, people are not like that by nature, and sometime something just has to give.
Is it not some kind of deception when all is said and done?

How would you like to be seen?

Being you, even if it means to step on toes every now and then?

Or as one of the ‘yes’ people?


So, how far would you go to be liked, and how high a price are you prepared to pay for it?

If they are not in stealth mode you'll see a blinking 'online now' when you look at your friends page.
If they are in stealth mode you would only see it when they are posting in the forums.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

What she said.

I'd also like to add: If you can't take it, don't give it.

I like to poke fun at myself, at my friends, but I'm able to take as good as I give.

Some people just get their knickers in a twist over nothing, then one should be careful.

But you know who did it behind such and such's back with so and so, too.

Pow wow.

I don't gossip, but I have popcorn and wine, and I'll sit here and watch.

I agree.

I would find it rather hard though not to defend myself when something is at stake e.g. my job, my family.
I just have to choose my priorities when it comes to this.

It must have been a very trying time for Robin, hearing all the time that people didn't receive anything.
Some people might not even have realized that none of it was her fault, that some things just didn't work out because of borders.
And she was in no way responsible for people begging out without saying a word.
Robin has done a great job, and I can understand her frustration.

Thank you.

1. I want to be a High Elf Healer, please.

2. Answer the following question as they will be added below your fantasy picture.

Why do you like Fantasy or Fiction?

It takes me to another world.

What is your favorite Medieval "Swords and Sorcery" type movie?

LOTR part 1-3

What is your favorite Fantasy novel?

Same as above.

What is your favorite roleplaying computer game?

Don't play.

What is your month and day of birth? Needed to make a "fantasy horoscope reading" to add below your illustration.

Sep. 8th.

What is your favorite holiday?

Belthane.

If you where to live in the 15th century in Europe, what would you like to be and explain why? For example - Lord, Princess, Alchemist, Knight, Advisor, Jester, farmer, Bishop, Assassin, etc. etc.

I would like to be a healer. And I don't think it needs an explanation. The only part I don't like is being burnt as a witch.

Where can a reader contact you? For example - Mingle2 screenname, or a yahoo account, etc. etc. ((You can send this email if you like)) Also only if you want to have anyone contact you

Mingle screen name.

I want some of that, too.

It's a great story, and I bet not many would like the traveler come back, and ask for that precious something.
Too many wouldn't even see the value.

Don't forget salt and pepper.

Way I see it, somewhere in this whole story is something neither party talks about. And as long as they don't, it's very hard to say anything constructive.

In my experience, once any governmental institution, no matter which, has labeled you, the label sticks, and is neigh to irremovable.

Perhaps it was easier and less work to label the woman after the first time it happened, and then to just take it from there?

I can get no......


......satisfaction.


Pardon?

SPEAK UP!!!!

huh?




Sorry, was just singing aloud.