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How to move forward
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walking away in your heart is the biggest and best thing you can do for you... Being able to separate having the child with her from what it does to you is the biggest and best thing you can do for yourself... You can make every excuse for yourself and her coming back that you want to.. The bottom line is that if you're not doing what is healthy for you then it's on "you"... don't b*tch or complain.. Deal with it or don't.. walk away or don't.. the adult/mature behavior is in each of us.. We can whine or we can stand up and deal with things... I choose to stand up and deal, I let "no one" affect how I live my every day life or what affects my heart/soul/thought/actions... Could it be that things only got worse with her because I let her affect me and put up with it? I feel half the time like I turned into her little ***** boy, not the man I used to be when we first met. Now I just feel like a toy she plays with whenever it's convenient to her. I never wanted to think that someone could be like that, especially her. |
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How to move forward
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I have walked, many times and tried to put her behind me. She ends up coming back and I get involved all over again. I really love her, and it gets hard to say no to her. By the way, we also have a child together, so I'll never be able to completely shut her out of my life,.
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How to move forward
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You have to suffer like the rest of us had to 
JK, No one can tell you how to get through it. it's something you have to come to terms with yourself, and that comes with time. Although, for me what helped was, Spending time with family and friends. Not leaving myself alone for a period of time where my little pee brain would run whild So I kept my self busy by doing things.
How long were you with them? How long did it take you to get over them? |
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How to move forward
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You just have to move on, move past it.. The "how" isn't important... If you haven't "self-evolved" then it's whatever you must tell yourself to get through it... The bottom line is if you don't move forward for you and treat others right, then you've let the "other" that broke your hear win and break "you".. The other that broke my heart to win? What do they win? I try to tell myself moving on is the best thing, maybe the only thing at this point, but it's easier said than done. They win YOU not wanting to go on or being able to move on, even if they don't want the trophy they win it... And that person is happy that way? winning it without even wanting it? Just to give a little insight, I asked her today in a conversation to tell me once and for all if she in or out, but she wouldn't answer me directly, and even ignored me by the end of it. |
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No magic bullet. You just need time. Try to remember that you didn't fall in love with them per se, but your image of them. While you're healing don't forget to love yourself 
I didn't fall in love with them, but the image? Maybe Im just a little naive or something, but I don't understand that. I've done the time thing, and even had a short relationship with someone else for a couple months. But I just couldn't do it. |
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How to move forward
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You just have to move on, move past it.. The "how" isn't important... If you haven't "self-evolved" then it's whatever you must tell yourself to get through it... The bottom line is if you don't move forward for you and treat others right, then you've let the "other" that broke your hear win and break "you".. The other that broke my heart to win? What do they win? I try to tell myself moving on is the best thing, maybe the only thing at this point, but it's easier said than done. |
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How to move forward
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Anyone have any ideas of how to move on with someone else when your heart is stuck on someone else? I know I should get over it, but how?
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