It's not the same if in less than 5 minutes you are asking me if "I'm horny"?

Exactly, and read for a minute the profile can be good too. Still don't understand guys 23 years old asking "care to chat?". I'm 36 (almost 37) and my profile state that I'm looking for men "far older than me"......What is thinking a guy 23 yo when send that message?
Or the other kind of message "why older men?" ...........well, maybe because they know read my profile before send a message .

I found that more and more people ask for chat in the first message, for a date in the second, and for sex in the 3rd message (all these in less than 5 minutes). Without ask likes, how you feel or why you are in a date website.
My panties color or if I'm horny is not in discussion when you are looking for a real date :)
If you are looking just sex, you can ask for it, and maybe with luck you can have it. What I'm trying to say is (and need others opinions) be sincere, don't try to go into a lady panties with "I'm looking for my soul mate" if that is not your intention. ;)

I think that's optional, maybe is because when you answer the "hi" they start asking how horny you are :). In other hand, I think no answer a "hi" is the answer.... "I'm not interested".

Thank you all for the welcome and the good wishes :)

I'm looking for someone interested in something than himself.

Hello, I'm single mom recently moved to London, On. I'm good cook, good listener recently divorced. I feel comfortable with people older than me (my ex was 61 years old), but unfortunately HE cheated on me.....I know some habits doesn't go with the age :)