That is not always the case. It seems like you might be stereotyping. Making it seem like women who are single with kids are gold diggers and sleep around. Also that their dad's are dead beats. I am a single mom of 2 who have the same dad. Was married for 18 years. Divorced now for 7. I work two jobs plus take care of my kids. Share custody with my ex and he is a good dad and takes responsibility. I don't need a man to take care of me. But just because I'm single with kids shouldn't mean I'm not date worthy or relationship worthy. But I also don't want a man who thinks it's ok to have friends with benefits and have the same with someone else at the same time. Not looking to help spread diseases. Just looking for someone who isn't afraid to have sex with just one person and focus on one person at a time.