you say "internet based".....so thats where we meet and primarily interact?

Would I have an occasional visit?

If I could see the person atleast every two weeks...yes...I know I could be faithful. Anything more than two weeks out would be too much for me.

I need to know I'm not loving a memory or a fantasy...I would have to resolve the proximity issue as well.

To know there is a light at the end of the tunnel...so to speak.

I dated a police officer a cuople years ago. Best officer ever. Great guy. He took his job as serving his community. If he saw someone walking on the side of the road at 1 am he would stop and ask if the person needed a ride home. ( he didn't have to do that )He kept an eye on the businesses and whose car was whose and if the business owners needed anything he told them let him know. He seriously cared about his community. He was proud of it and looked after it like it was his extended family.

I work in sales. I sell cars. I just sold a car to a lieutenant from the sheriffs office. Hes been there for 21 years...Great guy...his wife is a sweet heart...The same day I sold him the car I got a ticket by one of his officers for expired tags!!...lol

it was my own procrastination and I deserved it...I told his wife about it and she asked me "why didn't you tell them to call my husband?!?!?!"

I laughed....I told her I'm not like that...i deserved it...i didn't think about having them call her husband...*sigh*...oh well

But I have no problem with the men in blue. Granted there will be officers that don't care...but..in general I belive they are there to protect and serve and most do just that.

I am very doubtful that there is "one" flame that is ment for you in this lifetime.

Twin Flame makes sense.

I would have to believe that there is more than one twin flame for you in your lifetime.

I have met a couple guys that I could have sworn would have been my husband in another life....( if i believed in that )....

The connection was so very instant and deep....however because of circumstances I could not be with either one...so...I'm waiting for the next "twin flame" to show up....I'm waiting ...

Believe me...it's worth the wait....

Boots

If he still is interested in you he will make time to see you, talk to you and make time to spend time together.

Don't chase after him. Theres no need. You don't want to be with someone that has no interest in you other than sex. Thats pointless.
(unless thats what you want...then more power to you )

however...if your looking for someone to have a relationship with.....

If he calls and wants to "hang out" tell him the two of you can "hang out" at the coffee shop...or go to a movie. Don't allow it to go to the bedroom. If he wants you he will persue you...take you out...call you...send you flowers...e-mail...

he will do these things without trying to make it about getting you into bed.
Make him work towards getting to know who you are...if he does not want to...then you know he is not the one for you.... and move on!

shoes

DAMN men here in Michigan...apparently "romance" is not in their vocabulary...*sigh*...

Maybe tinsel.

Cut your own tree?

teenagers

lol.....I do prefer a hot breakfast over a cold one :p

Whatever he is eating...he seems to be enjoying it.

trix

they're for kids

Personally I believe that this world is full of so many different people it is impossible for anyone to NOT have someone for them.

Now...I also believe that sometimes people will enter your life at the right time and be there for you when you needed them....and that particular person serves a particular purpose for that period of time....( helping you through a death....a divorce...job loss...ect ect ect)
It does not mean that person will be your "soul mate" or is ment to be with you "forever" ( do not believe in soul mates )
I believe everyone at some point in their life eventually finds love. If they find it and abuse it and throw it away....shame on them.
If they realize they were wrong ....but have to move on from the mess they made with the person they wronged...they walk away with the understanding of what went wrong and hopfully will not make the same mistakes twice.

I believe everyone finds someone to love....eventually....some people just don't care until its too late....some people are just blind...who knows.

I had love once....I know It will find me again.

I have faith.

( or I'll just pop him in the noggin with my club and drag him back to my cave by the hair )

well...since you said "things" I could not live without, I will not list "people" as a "thing".
here goes.....

My guitar.

Scented candles from bath and body works.

Moisturizer.

theres always hope :)


always. ;)

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Of all the songs I wish I had written

yours is the one I wish I had written the most.

I wish you could be here to show me

just how lovely and elequent the melody could be.

What is a wish?

an empty prayer laid upon deaf hearts?

If so...I wish my heart was yours

and that prayer was answered.

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If during your flirting you give the impression to the flirtee that she has a shot with you...thats not so good.

I flirt naturally....I don't actively set out to flirt its just my nature. However I don't flirt giving anyone the idea they can get together with me.....unless I want them to think so.

Dude...it just comes down to treating whomever it is your seeing or "chatting" with the same respect you would want to be treated with. thats all....pretty simple. "Do unto others as you would have done unto you."

If everyone did that one simple thing, the world would be such a nicer place to live :p

A man who is confident and compassionate.

A Man Strong and secure enough to show his gentle side.

A man who will fight when he has to but looks for solutions before a punch is thrown.

*sigh*.....this is me being a bit picky.....hell....I just want to be with someone who will do unto others as they would have done to themselves. It shows character. I'm all about who a person is and what they stand for...not about the physical.

thats just me.