What are the rules on flirting? I mean if you see someone you like and they like you should you stop? when i say flirting i mean in the forums......? Is it wrong to flirt if your chatting with someone already?

I am who I am. I am a flirt!

If it hurts the other person's feelings then yes, you should probably stop. "Treat others how you want to be treated"

If you're chatting with someone you're interested in and flirt with others then are you really giving the other person the time you should to get to know them?

On the other hand some people are just harmless flirts and if the person they're "chatting" with understands that then it's probably not a big deal...

Personally I'd keep it all to a minimum if I weren't sure and wanted to give the one I was chatting with a fair shot at seeing where things could go...

If during your flirting you give the impression to the flirtee that she has a shot with you...thats not so good.

I flirt naturally....I don't actively set out to flirt its just my nature. However I don't flirt giving anyone the idea they can get together with me.....unless I want them to think so.

Dude...it just comes down to treating whomever it is your seeing or "chatting" with the same respect you would want to be treated with. thats all....pretty simple. "Do unto others as you would have done unto you."

If everyone did that one simple thing, the world would be such a nicer place to live :p

I flirt because I care.

I only flirt with one guy because I like him. I don't do casual flirting, it's not my personality and I don't see the point. But whatever works for you.

It's because you suck at flirting.

I am kidding Caleigh. Don't kill me.

i think you should find a girl to whom you're attacted and that she be the type to flirt with anyone and everyone and see if it hurts you or not.

then you'll have your answer.

I didn't think it would happen but I've toned it down quite a bit.

I would hope that if I was talking to someone I was interested in having a relationship with that they would be someone who would understand that the flirting in the forums was harmless. If my flirting on here would make him feel insecure then he would not be the person for me. I, in turn, would have no problem with him behaving the same way. Just because you start talking to someone doesn't mean you have to change your lifestyle. If the relationship became serious and he asked me to stop then I would.

I don't see anything wrong with flirting, I like to flirt all the time.

I flirt my azz off on here...Until I find one good man worthy of my time and energy and love I will continue to do so....

I really should get a life..

I just whip it out, and put it out there...oh yeah...

Until the mods delete it!!

No one can stop me...I am like the wind baby...

have to say it doesnt bother me a bit! i like flirty women and i like the bad girls but thats just my taste. I am not the wandering type but then again i dont devote myself too quickly either so i keep gettting in trouble and was starting to think maybe i am the one tripping? I guess based on the answers it's really about preference which would lead to another question. where the hell is that nasty flirt i can fall in love with?

I love to flirt!!

oooohhhh momma!