After reading all these comments, I realised that nobody mentioned what love really is in the first instance. Love is a feeling which is powered by an invisible energy called electromagnetism. This energy connects us all as humans on the grid of life. Falling in love can be motivated by words which may increase ones good feelings. Obviously, negative words lowers the frequency of the recipient. I find that we are all really in love with ourselves when we feel good and good towards those who contribute to that feeling of a high energy that can cause ones heart to skip a beat as the saying goes. Yes we can all fall in love over and over again and letting go does hurt as the frequency lowers.
The facts are that people do get frustrated when they don't feel good and sometimes run for the hills, so to speak, when it becomes unbearable. This may be called falling out of love?
I know that I can love anyone even when they are being negative as I realise we all possess this power but will fluctuate as the energies around us affect our electrical states. One can detox from older relationships just by making a few changes that will increase the energy flow and unblock low frequencies as love is the power of the universe.
I never fall in love as to fall is not good. Best to be balanced in love and understand that we all have to face the challenges of remaining balanced whether love or hate as this will make for longer lasting relationships. The power is within to created a more loving world. You are in the driving seat. I speak of the woman who seems to be more sensitive as she possesses the higher frequencies due to the complicated nature of her vessel. I can elaborate on all this if I haven't made this clear enough. Also, time they say is the healer, and this is true. However, mother nature makes the rules and has divided male and female into complimenting polarities. So one should not remain alone without a partner for too long as this can cause an imbalance which could lead to the malfunctioning of your avatars! So we should not stop looking for love as the benefits are electrifying!