this is a great way to meet people, but I found that sometimes instead of staring at a profile you like actually send a message, most of the time you'll at least get a hello back, don't let this stuff control your life however, still get out and about, think back to the one person or the persons you have been with even as friends, how did you meet, usually by luck to have met that person as they were lucky to have met you. Have fun with this stuff, let your fingers type away, but play nice and nice back you will get, Tim