I've been on this site for a couple of months and just keep meeting timewasters who just want to play txt tennis or swap dirty pics, grrrr! Ain't nobody got time for that. Where are the real women? I just want a lady to spoil is that too much to ask?

I thank everyone who replied to this post. I'm beginning to feel stronger about doing the right thing even though it will be tough. Love and blessings to you all.

My life is complicated. I am a mother and I am married . However I am a lesbian. My husband knows this has always known and Very supportive and allows me to have relationships with women as long as I don't leave him. Being with him has protected me from violence and being disowned by my family..But yet I feel trapped and desire to be with a woman freely Without all the baggage. I'm so depressed and I feel so alone.But at the same time I feel selfish for desiring to leave as he is kind , accepting and my best friend. Anyone else going through similar?