when people says marital sexual afairs are wrong then i ask them why.when we get married we are tied up in some conditions and if that conditions are not met then people go for extra afairs. when men or women are not sexually satisfied then they have right to go for such afairs. if he is not met with his wishes he or she will go for paid sex then why people see wrong in marital sex afairs. after all both person understand each other and enjoy there balance life happily. if person is opposed with such relation then he or she may do crime like rape. in such case your or my family members can be targeted.so it better that we allowed such person to have marital afairs. but it should be with good intentions