confidence women like men who are charismatic, intelligent and assholish. it works, im sub par on the looks, but i play guitar and ignore women. it works.im not saying to treat women badly, but, for some reason, every time i have been me, which is the nice version, cause i cant stand conflict, i get nowhere..but for some reason being a little arrogant and cocky works. this is my case study, so results may vary. but i will say this, it is kinda true about the guitar thing. if you dont believe me, try a photo with one and one without, and compare the views. i havent initiated any conversations. and ive had a few responses...quite a few....i have only met one in person , though. im still here. so that should answer any questions about her.