Waterloo...you are so right, and I did not intend to insult anyone, or for one man's behavior to indicate all men. Some women are like that, too. There are givers and takers. We have to be aware of our own selves before we can make a good choice for a partner. If you only give, soon your well runs dry. If you only take, soon you run out of wells. Balance is necessary.

Thanx...Yesterday is gone, and tomorrow is uncertain. Live today. Live each moment.

WRONG!!! He was wonderful for the first 20 years, then decided he was so good at it he had to spread it around.

When your 45 living alone with your dog and wondering why, remember what I wrote.

Yeah, and then she pukes on you.

But do you maintain a relationship?

LOL...my point exzctly!

Think they'll actually read it? LOL I'll teach it one man at a time if I have to!

Thanx...Hope I can do a favor for the women of the world.

I'm recently divorced, and having been on the on line dating circuit for only a few months, have seen a glaring misconception, by men, of what "romance" means to a woman. Big clue, fellas...it's NOT sex!
Ever wonder what happened to that great love afair? You stopped being romantic. Why do we need it? I don't have an answer for that, but we DO need it! Have you ever seen a couple in their later years, married for 30, 40, 50 years, and she still looks at him with "googly eyes", they still hold hands? He's not even good looking, what does she see in HIM? It's because he still romances her. He puts on some sensual music while she's cooking dinner, waits for her to have a 'break', takes her in his arms and dances her around the kitchen, maybe plants a soft but lingering kiss(no tongue), and then walks away to let her finish her business. And she just MIGHT turn off the stove and say, "We can eat later.", if you get my drift. The secret? He left her wanting more. It's these little occasional surprises that keeps our motor running. A sweet love note on the pillow, tickets to an affair in her bag, an invitation to meet for lunch or dinner at a favorite or new spot, imagination is the key. It's give and take...you want sex, we want romance. Give us what we need, and we give you what you need. You get what you give....The Romance Guru