It depends on who you ask.

If you ask the majority of non-believers, the quick and simple answer is HELL YES! They will tell you SEX IS VERY IMPORTANT in a relationship.

If you ask the majority of true believers who actually follow God's word, they will tell you sex is important BUT only between two people who truly love one another AND after they get married.


People will say things and judge us regardless of being a believer or not.
What is important is doing what you truly believe in.

I believe communication is the KEY importance for a relationship to last. Without that, everything else does not matter. Sex will play a part in a relationship between two people who love one another. If the two individuals are followers of Christ, they will wait patiently to consummate with one another because they are commanded to do so.

Once they involve the act of "sex" into the relationship, this will show how strong or how weak their relationship truly is. People talk and say if the sex is not good you should leave.

However, if two people who truly love one another, they will talk it out and work with one another to improve their sex life.

Oh one last thing ... i think before two people are married even if they are not sexually active, they should be comfortable discussing and talking about sex with one another. This can help each other become less uncomfortable with the topic possibly.