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Sat 06/13/09 06:38 AM
Well to explain I met this girl like 2 months ago, and we really hit it off and have a great connection, but she keeps saying she just wants to be friends. We had sex a couple of times, which almost ended the whole friendship. She has said she knows I'm good for her, but she has also said I'm too emotionally young. Whatever that means. I guess I can be immature at times, but I'm 18, so there. I really like her but she's 24 and I think that may be part of the problem. She knows how I feel about her. I just don't know what to do here because I feel like I can't just be friends with her without thinking about having sex again (which she says isn't going to happen) or having a relationship (which she also said isn't going to happen). I just wish I knew a way to change her mind.

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Sat 06/13/09 06:33 AM
Just wondering, because I'm kind of sick of it.

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Thu 05/14/09 12:38 AM
I keep thinking that if I just stop talking to her she'll realize what she missed out on. I know that's the wrong thing to do though.

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Thu 05/14/09 12:35 AM
Damn, that's a good point. I'm guessing number two is the right way to go.

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Thu 05/14/09 12:30 AM
That's what I'm trying to do. It's just difficult, you know?

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Thu 05/14/09 12:27 AM
I've tried telling her I can't handle it. Somehow it never works. I always end up apologizing. She thinks I'm too emotionally young. Probably because i have depression.

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Thu 05/14/09 12:24 AM
Morning.

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Thu 05/14/09 12:22 AM
Huh. The thing is if I stay friends with her my feelings are just going to keep growing while the whole time she just wants to be friends. I guess that's why I'm here. Trying to move on so I can stay friends with her.

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Thu 05/14/09 12:20 AM
Is the friend zone real or am I just too in my head?

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Thu 05/14/09 12:16 AM
It's a problem.

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Wed 05/13/09 11:18 PM
Just looking for some ladies to talk to.