I'm in Beaufort sc

Even though the bible says,'' whosoever findeth a wife findeth a good thing.''
I see that some woman even I am looking for a man because I have been hurt by the men God put in my life and all of them has broken my heart. They all said they were Christian but later in our relationship they want to have sex but when I tell them I don't believe in sex before marriage they would get upset and find another girl to have sex with or hurt me bad by physically abusing me. So now I'm starting to look for a man.
Do you think I should continue waiting or is it good for a woman to look for a good man?