I was on this dating site six months ago. There are several women that were on the site six months ago. They are listed as available and on the site now. Are these women playing games? Are their standards to high? Or have we ,as a society,fail to understand that real love is comes from the heart ? Real loves is not based on looks ,shapes, sizes,or material possessions.Real loves covers pains, shortcomings and anything else negative you or I can think of!!! Real loves bares and covers all things. Or is there a such thing as finding real love and your soulmate?