Friend ..... you have written my mind here .... i have gone through this dilemma .... and would love to share my experience.

Till the age of 26 i was a virgin and i was so much obsessed with sex that every minute of day i used think abt sex only (i mean it) .... obviously it was affecting my life - personally and professionally.

Out of this obsession, i started visiting dating sites to find someone ..... and the result - I ended up having sex with a fat women of age 38 .... as someone said, sex ended in 2-3 minutes ... But later there was 'Sea of Guilt' in my mind and trust me i was ashamed of myself.

After few days, again the sex obsession started taking over feeling of guilt and again i visited the lady .... had a sex .... again felt guilty ... this happened lot many times.

Over period of 3 years, before I got married, i had a sex with 12+ women ... most of them were escorts .... 'wasted' lot of money but no peace of mind.

So i would like to suggest you to engage yourself with your friends ... be social ... who knows you will find a girl.

If you go by my path ... u'll end up in feeling guilty .... u'll waste money .... there wont be peace of mind ... trust me.