It's not that I'm afraid or embarased, it's that I don't wan't to go through the drama. like my dad and step-mom would be like "it's okay, we're here for you", when the say that just because they have to be suportive and just doing it to be the stereo typical 'good parents'. Then my mom and step-dad would laugh at me and call me a pillow biter and all that, but I feel like it's pointless unless i have a good reason like if i find a guy i wan't to be with, I would bring him over and invite him to the family and everything. And yea i do live in a small town, i probable get beat up if came out, but not even that would stop if i found someone, but how do i go searching where? what? WHen? WHY? , but yea the time is come that everyone will know and i don't care, i've been drowling over my best friend without him relly know, though i told him I'm bi. he's relly the only one that knowes.

actualy, being a lesbian would be sweet, because you would be able to hook up with relly hot chicks.

you shouldn't need the attention and love, but love the attetion and love when you get it and even give it back to show the person that you lovin' it. ;)

Is there a way i could go searching for a man secreatly? I'm Bi, but havn't told anyone and don't wan't to, because i don't wan't all the bs about gayness (though if i found someone i would like to be with I would come out for them and to be with them). My problem is going out and dating, and finding someone, i dopn't wan't to to come out and no one else has the balls to come out and i just get outcast. plz help. :(